So, there is a guy I am attracted to. We engage in great conversations, but I cannot read if I should make a move and whether he is interested in something more.
I think he is interested because: I catch him looking and me across a room and sometimes he continues to look and other times he quickly looks away but then his eyes find me again relatively quickly, we always have great eye contact, every time he seems me his face instantly brightens (big smile, raised eyebrows— just emitting energy), sometimes he “seems” to be fidgety around me, but it’s not always, I catch him giving eye contact and then “dipping” down to my chest, yesterday (out of the ordinary) he was staring at my face and when I looked at him he had this sweet little smile but just kept staring, he touches his face a lot and messes with his hair
why I think he may not be interested: he doesn’t always initiate conversation, while I have caught him looking at me, sometimes it’s as though he doesn’t even recognize I am there (when he knows I am there), I second guess that when he looks at me he is just looking in my direction or that he accidentally stares at me (I don't know),
I have this gut feeling that there is something there. It’s like electric energy when we are around, but I don’t want to make a move, be wrong, and lose his friendship as he is an amazing person. So, what do you all think? Do the “positive signs” outweigh the “confusing” ones? Thanks for the input!
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I meaaannn, the problem with your reasons as why he could like you is that they're just, tooo small, you know? Like everything you mentioned CAN definitely be signs of hij being into you but they're pretty small signs that can easily be misunderstood
I'm not saying he doesn't like you. In fact, if i had to take a shot in the dark I would say he does, but it wouldn't have much evidence behind said claim. Just a feeling you know🤔
You need something more evident
If you think about it both your reasons on why he could and couldn't like you are very similar. Also are these signs more apparent because you like him or are they obvious signs?
Remember when you like someone, you tend to notice small things and make them appear bigger.
I dont know, eye contact and staring st you just isn't enough for me to say YUP he forsure likes you. Bit it doesn't mean he doesn't, as I said