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Gym girl, should I approach her again?

Anonymous

I’m a fitness junkie and sometimes I will approach fellow gym girls and maintain a friendly not too direct demeanor unless of course the girl is giving me signals.

About 2 months back I saw an extremely cute girl and decided to shoot my shot and I walked up to her and wanted to say hello and she said hello back and looked down. She seemed a bit shy so I then asked for her name and we exchanged names then I asked what her nationality was and she gave me a big huge smile and told me to guess. I ended up guessing correctly and then I decided to just end the conversation after that because we had our workouts to get back to and told her I would see her around. It’s pretty infrequent I would see her from then now but now we both work out at nights on weekday nights and see each other on a weekly basis.

The problem is she is very shy and we will only make eye contact from a distance. I’m not the type to keep interrupting someone’s workout I usually keep it mutual. Granted I know this is a girl and she seems very shy so I don’t expect her to come to say hi to me.

Should I go approach her again? In the gym it feels like the rules are different so I’m worried about seeming like a nuisance.

Gym girl, should I approach her again?
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