Girls, is this girl trying to get my attention?

[Musicman93]

To give you some background info, I have recently lost over 120 pounds of weight this past year and have been bulking up with muscle. Since my new muscle mass does compensate for much of the fat that remains I end having a pretty good figure, considering what it used to be. I've recebtly decided to go out and try and find a girl, since it is getting rather boring being alone in college. The last 4 I tried turned out to be lesbians heheh. (Figured out due to asking, specific lgbt stuff they had etc) I guess thats the risk you run when you like short haired girls. After failing with the fourth one, it was a quick realization. I realized that a really attractive (and straight) girl had been eyeing me all class. Thinking back it was subtle at first before class when I kept catching her giving me quick scabs when I stretched (sore from gym). I didn't think much of it until I kept noticing that she was looking back at me. Turning her head so that she could see out of the corner of her eye. At first I thought she was looking at someone else, but there are no other men in our desk row. This happened a few times until we finally locked eyes for about 5 seconds before she looked away again. As you can probably guess I am apprehensive considering what has been the norm when I approach women and how unbeleivably attractive this girl is. So my question is ladies, do you think she is into me? And should I appeoach her?

Yes, she probably likes you.

No, misinterpreting thibgs.

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I forgot to mention that I'm pretty sure she didn't see my fopar with the most recent lesbian so I don't think she was giving me a funny look because of that heheh

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So apparently I was misinterpreting things because when I asked her she stuttered out that she'd have an answer after class... skipped class and today's. So I think I'll be looking for lesbian #5 next. :(

[LittleMissGriff]

I think it's totally worth a shot! The likelihood is that she's interested. I mean, it could also be that you look just like someone she knows, someone released a video of you streaking on the internet, or the unground lesbian community has named you as that straight guy who keeps asking them out, but frankly, those are all pretty unlikely.

If you're five-for-five after this, laugh it off. Also, try and make friends with the lesbians. They're usually aces at setting up people since the gay community in most towns is pretty interconnected. So, they might have some straight friends who fit you to a T.

[Musicman93]

Inside ring how bad things went. I'm wishing she was lesbian number 5 lol.

[Musicman93]

Considering*

[LittleMissGriff]

Ouch. Well, remember - if that's how first approach went, you're better off.

Have a fist bump of solidarity. I feel ya, man.

[Musicman93]

She stuttered out that she'd let me know her answer after class. Then skipped class that day and today. So it is either very good or very bad lol.

[LittleMissGriff]

Ahahaha, oh man, that's shitty. Wow. I want to buy you a drink in solidarity and laugh the entire time because THAT? That's hilariously bad. Luckily, it's bad on her part, not yours, but wow.

[Musicman93]

So really bad then? lol. I've got no hope here. Haha

[LittleMissGriff]

I mean, I have no idea? Like, that response just kinda leaves you standing there going, 'What.'

She might just be shy and overwhelmed, but she also could be a bit spineless and unwilling to turn you down to your face and decided if she cut and run you'd get the hint? I would assume it's a 'no' and if it ends up something came up or she was just frazzled, you can decide if you still want to go out with her.

But it's a hell of a story. "I asked a girl out once and she said she'd let me know after class. She skipped classes for two days." Don't worry, I'm pretty sure you didn't do anything to actually deserve that, so just chalk it up to her poor choices.

[Musicman93]

lol. I would still if she was nervous. It did take me a week to get the nerve to speak to her after all.

If I ever do actually meet the right girl I'll have one hell of a list two read off. So far I'm at 4 lesbians, one moved away, and one jerk hahaha... I'll be taking that drink now.

[LittleMissGriff]

Beer or shots, my friend?

Or, if you want to do the 'I'm female and nearing thirty, so I no longer give a fuck' routine, we watch bad TV with wine and nice desserts and chocolate.

Luckily, the list will be a great laugh with the right girl. I'm sure she'll have a few of her own. I had one where I asked out a guy and his best friend snapped around and exclaimed, at the top of his lung, "WAIT. AREN'T YOU A DYKE?"

Yeah. I just had to stand there a bit and go, "... No."

[Musicman93]

Hahaha. I'm sorry. That sucks. What a freakin a hole! Did you have short hair at the time?

I've had buddies ask me if I was gay before. Never asked girls out. I ask girls out. End up asking out lesbians.

[LittleMissGriff]

Oh, no, I totally didn't. I had like, princess hair. It wasn't styled or anything, but it was super long. I wore lots of dark clothing - not goth, just navy, black, grey, dark green, etc - and, this was the clincher for him, apparently, I wouldn't sit in his lap.

Welcome to the logic of high school boys, everyone. Because, at lunch, he'd pull girls into his lap and they'd flirt and giggle, the fact that he tried with me once and got an elbow to the face (I was a very violent teenager, I admit) meant that I was into vaginas, not that he was an asshole.

Funny thing is that none of my friends thought I was gay because half my friends are bi and if I were into girls they'd be dating me, lol.

[Musicman93]

Cut him some slack. it was only logical on his part XD

Well I wouldn't mind meeting in the middle with a bi girl. Oh and let's go with shots. doesn't take so long.

[LittleMissGriff]

You have the choice of tequila or cognac. I would offer you something else since the internet is entirely imaginary, but I feel a sense of duty to stay true to my liquor cabinet.

[Musicman93]

I can respect that. Cognac lol. Yours was certainly the worst female stoey I've heard. Was mine the worst make one you've heard? I've seen some really bad lists of turn downs out there.

[LittleMissGriff]

Not even close. Most people don't have an impressive streak like you have, but I promise, I've totally heard worse. One guy asked out a girl and she did the 'Uh, oh shit, I uh... I have a boyfriend.' and showed him a picture on her phone. Saw her later with her 'boyfriend' and when she noticed him, she turned around and just started macking on this guy. The guy was positively horrified. Ends up, her 'boyfriend' was her brother and she was so against the idea of going on a date (Or, honestly turning him down) with my friend that she KISSED HER OWN BROTHER WITH TONGUE to try and carry on the lie.

[Musicman93]

That is dedication right there!

[LittleMissGriff]

Best part was that the second time, he didn't try to talk to her or anything. They were just at the same park. He had no intention of even saying 'hi'. She just saw him and went for her brother.

[Musicman93]

That's one hell of a girl lol. Too bad she can't be that dedicated to better things than... making out wity her brother

[LittleMissGriff]

I always wanted to find the brother and pat him on the back. I mean, it's one the to decide a situation is so desperate you have to kiss your brother. It's something else to be completely blind sided by your little sister's tongue down your throat. Talk about trauma.

[Musicman93]

I bet that guy is having trouble seeing her the same now lol. Worse than any of the stories I read.

[Bethaboz]

Sounds to me like she's into you. I never make eye contact with a guy unless I'm into him and if she smiles when she does then I would say yes definitely. Go for it, what do you have to lose, except to never know what could have been if you didn't.

[Musicman93]

See, that's what I was thinking. I was really just shocked to notice her. Especially after the debacle I just has. Wondering if she has been trying to get my attention before.

[Bethaboz]

She very well could have been, and you just might have been focused on the other girl that you may have not even noticed that she was right there all along. 😊

[Anonymous]

Probably yes. You can't be sure unless you talk to her about it.

[FireStarter8869]

Dooo ittt.. you'll never know if you don't try.

[Ljubica]

She is interested in you, I think

[Anonymous]

Go for it! Why not?

[Anonymous]

she likes you