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Am I ready to start a new relationship?

I lost my job and my boyfriend of 3 years, 3 months ago. I was a total mess but I understand why my ex did what he did. He was the love of my life but he deserves better than me. I'm always fucking up my life even when I...
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What do lower quality guys, in your opinion, mean?

In my perspective, lower quality guys will lie, cheat, verbally abuse, control, and abuse. Not the hot guys, of you. Low-quality men can be any man, and I have date small men who some men thought were hot, but not all men...
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If you're just in a relationship but not living together, is it common to be disorganized?

My life at home is somewhat disorganized. Growing up, I was used to having an easy life and never really had to struggle with anything. I learned how to cook at the age of 30 and wasn't into baking until late 2019. My...
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Do women generally understand men better or vice versa?

Growing up I always heard that women understand men better than men understand women. To a certain extent that makes sense. Women usually have better intuition and relationships are a big deal to them. Plus they are...
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Growing up I always heard that women understand men better than men understand women. To a certain extent that makes sense. Women usually have better intuition and relationships are a Show More
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Can someone who actually has severe control and trust issues change?

My relationship with my long distance ex was rocky. In the beginning, I did a lot of things for him to feel at peace within the relationship. I stopped posting pictures on social media, erased my past pictures, cut off...
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Can a Guy Be the Prize in a Relationship?

First consider how different types of relationships work. In a traditional relationship, the guy PROVIDES things to the woman in exchange for loyalty/respect, her having kids. But mostly it's all being provided by him....
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Guy I'm dating said he might get back with his ex?

I've been dating this guy for 2-3 months and he informed me he was talking to his ex and that they might get back together if she moves into the city... He asked me about 3 weeks ago what I expected from our dynamic and...
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What degree of obligation does a *Long-Term* Significant Other have to spend time with their S. O.'s family?

Backstory: Moved across the country (U. S.) to live closer to my girlfriend's sister, namely. I would have preferred to live elsewhere, but I was willing to try, just so she could be closer to family. I can't stand the...
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Why would an ex boyfriend text you and tell you that he "has been trying to type a text to end this, but he cannot press send"?

Long story short, I had to leave my long distance ex boyfriend because he became extremely controlling and paranoid. He would freak out if I told him I wanted to go to the gym, or to my master's degree celebration, and...
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Why do I wanna make my boyfriend feel shitty?

like ima do this quick cause this question is sorta foggy in my head but I tend to get upset sometimes and I cannot control myself or act happy at all so my boyfriend keeps msging me or talking and I can't help but be...
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My ex boyfriend wanted me back, then ignored my messages and then told me this. What is his intention?

Long story short, I had to leave my long distance ex boyfriend because he became extremely controlling and paranoid. He would freak out if I told him I wanted to go to the gym, or to my master's degree celebration, and...
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Deep dive in to what it means to a man when women say "I am proud Dog Mom", or "I am interested in making new friends" on their online dating profile.

Obviously men go to online dating apps for a variety of reasons, but primarily these guys break down into two categories; the ones that are looking for quick and easy sex, and the ones who are genuinely looking for a...
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If a realtionship already failed once then it's never worthy of a 2nd chance right?

I was in a relationship with my then boyfriend twice. I broke up and blocked him twice. The first time I was 24. I went single and focused on college and other interests. I told him there was no future with him, he was a...
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When I reflected about my ex boyfriend, I realised I should have left way earlier. I have realised that love really blinded me from his flaws.

In my past relationship, I had so many insecurities. I disliked his past and the risky behaviours he had taken when he was single. I projected my dislike to him and it caused a big strain on my mental health and...
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“Young guys should date around, make💰, then marry 20 Y olds @ 40. Women marry young as virgins before exp date” What logic gaps, if any, do you see?

I have seen this stuff said before tho seeing it on the rise lately with videos from pearlythings & femsapian. I discovered them unintentionally pop up in my feed. They are all over & some people seem to gobble it up....
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I have seen this stuff said before tho seeing it on the rise lately with videos from pearlythings & femsapian. I discovered them unintentionally pop up in my feed. They are all over & Show More
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New mom dealing with narcissist in-laws?

I’m with my partner 10 years I have never had a great relationship with his parents or brother, they are narcissist. Since the arrival of the new baby our relationship has become worse because I just won’t step aside. I...
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I'm not sure if it's my problem or not?

I've been in a few relationships and they end up the same way except for my latest ex. My first ex broke up with me because I didn't care much about her. I took note of that and improve it on my next relationship....
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Help what do I do?

People keep harassing me over something that completely out of my control. They interfere with my relationships isolate me give power to my enemies to destroy me they always target me when am about to prosper they bully...
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I have no idea what I want to say to my ex?

We broke up a few days over him asking for an open relationship because he’s having issues controlling his sexual urges. We live six hours away from each other but he never acts on those urges. He feels guilty having them...
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Have you seen 'murdered by my boyfriend' on BBC iPlayer? What do you think about its portrayal of DV?

I think everyone should watch this show before getting into a relationship, it really shows how a seemingly nice guy can give off red flags early on, and how ignoring those red flags can escalate them towards violence....
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