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(F20/M25) I met her at a bonfire and shortly after I took her virginity. I was her first guy ever. We didn’t date but she drove 2 hrs to see me every weekend for a couple months. We would go out on dates and do freaky stuff like skinny dipping, public sex, and I’d eat her booty. It didn’t work out because we were 2 hrs apart while she was in college, so it’s was doomed from the beginning for multiple obvious reasons.

She ended up meeting some guy with rich parents at her school, and then ghosted me and threw him in my face on her Snapchat stories. He and his friend group took her to Time Square on New Years Eve and then Puerto Rico just a few months later.

She’ll never come back to me after that, and I’d never take her back, but do you think she still thinks about me? Will she always remember me?

Say there's a guy you really find really attractive. He is neutral to you at first, but you drop a lot of really strong hints for him to get to know you better and take you out on a date. The guy is open-minded and figures "sure, why not?" and agrees to go out on a date with you. However, the afternoon before the date, he texts you and tells you that he always goes Dutch, meaning he only ever pays for his meals and you'll only ever pay for yours. He will NOT be paying for anything on your date, now or ever.

DOES THIS CHANGE YOUR VIEW OF HIM; SPECIFICALLY IN A NEGATIVE WAY?

Keep in mind, this does not involve the "we'll each take turns paying" scenario, since in this case, you persuaded him to ask you out on a date, even if he is still technically The Asker. This also does not involve the "only if the man insists on paying" scenario. If you are fine with paying yourself and the man insists anyway, then you're still option B.

I'm talking about any woman who has the expectation that the man must pay for you on your date and if you're forced to spend your own money, then you will feel slighted or negative towards him, including refusing him sex down the line, or even ghosting him.

Inspired by this question here and countless other similar ones on GAG.