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Question primarily for left thinking people because the right will say "send them back"... we all know the script.

We all know about the immigrants waiting in lines in nyc, chicago, colorado and California... waiting to be approved to work and stay here. Until then, they can't work and are falling into the streets as their housing is taken up... along with American citizens.

If Trump is elected, he will attempt (probably succeed) to send them home to be reprocessed. That will be traumatic socially... for the immigrants and the Americans that believe they should be here. Can you imagine spending all your $, the death march of trauma and loss to get to USA... to be thrown back to Venezuala or Honduras.

So, what should President Biden do now to ensure the security of these peoples?

The issues to solve are:

* Legalizing their stay

* Housing

* Jobs/training

* Filtering out criminals... or just waiting until the few that are gang, drug, terrorists are caught.

Here's one idea in the public eye... but they need work permits and status.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/ny-governor-prioritizes-illegal-immigrants-for-state-jobs/ar-BB1jwOkj

I've seen locally the govt pushing through zoning changes to build higher density developments.

Not too long ago I went on date for the hell of it with a young woman I had very little physical attraction for. But I treated her well, bought her drinks, engaged in a good conversation and even drove her back to her place.

After some discussion she made a very insulting comment about my haircut a few moments after I dropped her off. Taken aback and pissed off I just said “well fuck you & have a good night” and left. I did nothing to provoke her. I didn’t hit on her.

The next day I sent her a DM saying “that haircut comment was mean”. She responded “you know what you are completely right. You did absolutely nothing to deserve it. I don’t know what the hell is wrong with me”. She then proceeded to literally beg to me (not exaggerating) to go on a second date. She kept going off on how cute I was & everything else.

I told her I felt better that she apologized but I declined. I wished her the best.

I later asked myself (and should have asked her) would she have apologized if she did not find me attractive? I highly doubt it. Her apology wasn’t truly genuine because there was still something in it for her.

The world isn’t fair. It’s obviously easier to mistreat people who are of little or no value to you. It’s like seeing a homeless person. There is virtually nothing they can do for you (and they can be annoying or even dangerous). But would you do something nice for them and do it discreetly (not for optics)?

It is just in my experience especially with dating is that women have a harder time respecting men they don’t find value in.

To a limited extent I can understand they don’t want to give the guy the wrong idea. But once a woman determines a man is of little use to her she feels like it’s okay to disrespect him much more then vice versa

I have been in the reverse position a few times. I won’t bend over backwards for those women. But I won’t ghost or disrespect them either. I will politely turn them down.