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I started uni very recently and before it started, i had become friends with a guy who's going to the same department as mine on social media. We exchanged texts daily and the exchange was playful and fun. He even said we'd be inseparable close friends by graduation and i expected so too. but unfortunately, we didn't get into the same class, which virtually means we won't have contact with each other even on the same campus because classes are completely separate. Still, last week when uni started, we finally met for an info session at uni and went to lunch together before that. I enjoyed chatting with him because it was very easy to talk to him and i assumed he did too, but later that day when I texted him and suggested that we hang out again sometime soon after class, he texted me back and said not anytime soon bc he'll be busy with classes and other activities, strangely also adding that he would prefer to hang out in a group next time even if there's next time. i'm sure he's not in a relationship and i never suggested anything romantic and i genuinely just want to hang out with him again because it was fun chatting with him. since then, his replies got very slowly and much shorter. On top of that, i asked him this week if he'd like to go to an interesting uni event this week after class with me and when he finally replied he shortly just said he'd take a rain check (as his classes end before noon that day and the event is in the evening) and suggested i ask someone else particularly in my class out. I can't help feeling he's no longer interested in maitaining our still new friendship. and it's realistically very likely to just fizzle out as i don't see him at uni and texting is pretty much the only communication between us. Should i just let it naturally fade away without trying to keep the texting going and just forget about him or try to keep in touch with him by still sending him messages?

I’ve worked with a guy for two and a half years. We have a flirty relationship and we tease each other. Examples of him flirting include: prolonged eye contact, staring, gazing into both eyes and at my mouth, doing silly things to get my attention, showing slight jealousy.

We bumped into each other on a night out and a random person thought we were a couple. He said “I should be so lucky” and later on I admitted to him that I really like him and have feelings for him.

I asked him if he liked me/felt the same way and he said “you’re a lovely person”. I kept asking him, and he kept saying the same thing.

I then said “please answer the question” and he snapped at me saying “yes I do but we can’t be together”

We both drank a bit but he didn’t seem overly drunk at all.

Do you think there was any truth in what he said and do you think he meant it?

it’s probably my overthinking but I’m worried that my colleague doesn’t like me in that way.

We have a close/flirty relationship where we tease each other. He does tease and joke around with other people though.

He has sometimes displayed signs of being slightly jealous (going quiet when I talk about other men, interrupting my conversation with another guy) and on a recent night out, we both confessed that we like each other (while slightly drunk)

He was teasing me about how short I am. I said, “I enjoy being short and cute”

He said - “I’m not commenting on that”

Me - “what did you say?”

Him - “nothing”

Me - “oh so now you’re disputing that I’m cute?”

and he didn’t respond.

Did he ignore me because he doesn’t think I’m cute or attractive?

I have a huge crush on a colleague. We admitted we liked each other recently (while slightly drunk) and we flirt/tease each other. There is always a lot of eye contact involved and he will always glance at both eyes as well as my mouth.

We were talking about heights and he teased me about being short. I said “I’m happy being short and cute”

He then said “I’m not going to comment on that”.

I didn’t hear him properly so I asked him “what did you say?” Any he kept saying “nothing”

I then said, “oh, you’re disputing the fact that I’m cute?” and he went dead silent and said nothing.

So now I’m being crazy, but because he ignored what I said, does that mean he doesn’t find me attractive or cute?

l’m worried that I’ve messed things up and I don’t know what he meant. Please help!!