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I've haven't spoken to her since Dec 2021. She's trying to reach me but I'm still too hurt. I consider what she did unexcusable. I'm having a hard time forgiving.

She has always gotten upset for trivial things, blown things out of proportion (ex: if you were to tell her that she dances in a unique way, she starts crying, thinking you hate her and refuses to talk to you) and goes into the ''not talking to you for a week or so'' if someone doesn't apologizes first, even if it wasn't your fault at all. She likely has borderline personality disorder; I don't know.

Flashback to last year:

Well her pride, getting upset with me for something stupid and refusing to talk to me... made her purposely miss my special day. All my family members (my father and everyone else) and friends were there, everyone but her. I needed her to be present on the most important day of my life. By not showing up, it's like she refused me, she rejected me. For me, I felt it a rejection of the highest level ever, as way ''I don't love nor care about you'' at all. I don't even believe in her previous ''I love you'' words anymore. I'm still hurt. Is my anger justified?

If you had a great, loving relationship with you sibling (s), which is more hurtful? Losing the older sibling that you looked up to or losing your baby sibling you cared for/protected?

I have two tragic stories to share:

My friend lost her older brother (10 years her senior) whom was like a father figure and her personal martial arts instructor. Their father left when she was just a 3 month-old baby. He taught her how to cook and several other skills too. When she lost him in an auto accident a couple years ago (the dude was just 34), she felt lost in life. She felt nothing without him. Eventually she worked it out with a therapist.

I was reading a terrible story about a woman's baby sister getting stalked and killed. The girl has barely turned 18 and was the baby sibling in the house. All her siblings felt hopeless and powerless that they couldn't be there to protect her, to save her.

Hey everyone so my boyfriend left me 2 weeks ago for personal problems. He was tired, sad, and felt bored. He swore I was not the issue and has made an effort to stay friends. the first week of being friends we hung out, held hands, kissed etc. It was like we were dating with no label and we both agreed it needed to stop. So we did. He didn't know what he wanted, he said he felt numb and depressed. A few nights ago he said leaving me made him feel even worse and that I was not the issue at all but that he knew he couldn't get into a relationship with me until he figured out his issue. He said he wanted to prioritize his mental health. I was super upset but also really understanding. I have gone minimal contact with him for about 2 days now and have done my best to give him space and distance to figure out his life. Today he invited me to dinner, said he had an extremely hard day and wanted a hug and to see me. I understand we broke up but we have love for each other and he has stayed loyal completely anyways. Do I go and risk getting my hopes up? Do I go and remind myself its just a friend and not expect anything. Or, do I say no and risk him being upset or thinking i've moved on.