Last night my boyfriend couldn't sleep and neither could I. I started getting into my own head like people do at night and I remembered something I'd repressed for years and tried to forget.
I just looked at him and I felt so scared of what would happen if I told him this but I thought now it's been 3 years and I know he really loves me I feel safe enough to tell him.
He instantly knew something was up with me so I told him everything and I cried my eyes out. I begged him not to dump me and not to think of me differently now. He just hugged me and smiled and didn't really have much to say about it.
I told him he's the only person who knows about it not even any of my family know and that I don't like talking about it so don't bring it up ever again or use it against me.
It's the reason I kept things from him in a relationship and I only just explained why 3 years on in are relationship.
He just hugged me and tried to make me feel safe as possible. I still blame myself for what happened and see myself as so stupid for my part that I played in my secret. I was technology a adult at the time this happened but not mentally well and was still at a age were I could be easily manipulated.
He told me he thinks it's more common than I think and that it's okay but I'm so scared of what he really thinks once he's had time to form a opinion.