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A lot of women are taking advantage and even defrauding unsuspecting men at bars and nightclubs around my city.

First incident occurred at a nightclub. I was talking to this girl and offered to buy us drinks. She requested 2 shots of expensive liquor. I brought back the drinks and some guy she was associated with and claimed was her "transportation" quickly approached and chugged both shots down and they both hurried out of there.

The second and most serious incident occurred today. Two girls approached us claiming to be college students were talking to me and my roommate and we carried on a conversation. We later approached them and offered to buy them drinks. They requested our credit cards and was wanting to buy us all drinks on our behalf. Immediately, red flags started showing and we handed them some cash instead. They approached the bar and stood there a long time. They waited until we turned out backs and they disappeared. Imagine if I was stupid enough to hand them my debit card!

I contacted the police and the local news, as an officer told me this has been happening a lot at bars around here.

I guess women continue to screw up a man's life all the time.

My own standards are to date someone who is on par with me more or less. I’m not perfect. Not a saint. I’ve been told I’m attractive but I know I’m no young Brad Pitt. However I am independent, got a good job, in good health, have a very interesting past and some fun hobbies.

There was only one time in my life I found a woman who was truly on par with me. It tragically didn’t work out because she met me at a bad time in my life. There was also one time I swung for the fences in college and went after a girl who was “out of my league.” She actually approached me first but I had zero game back then and screwed it all up.

But anyway virtually all the women I’ve met who were really into me in last few years weren’t exactly on par. However most of them were confident I would like them. I tried dating a girl who I saw potential in but she had very serious emotional issues (family abuse) that I wasn’t equipped to handle.

Anyway confidence is great. But why is it that women seem to daydream unrealistically about they are entitled to in dating vs. men?

Probably because men are very visual so if they see a woman they like they will try to approach her. On the other hand women can be unaffected by men's looks so men are trying to prove they are good enough for her and she gets to choose. Plus many if not most women can be attracted to other women so women have more options than men do