Search Results: talking about feelings

Do I scare him?

So there is a guy at my workplace who I have never had a conversation with. He is a shy person naturally, so I tried to tell myself that's all his behavior was. I catch him looking at me, especially in passing. But a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to Deal with Man with Avoidant Attachmemt?

I have known my friend for 5 years. Our friendship was on and off a little, but this year we reconnected and I ended up developing feelings for him, which I wasn’t expecting. In the beginning everything was great and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is what I did the right decision?

I had an online friend, I met him while my heart was bleeding and had many problems, he really helped me, i talked with him all day when am feeling lonely, but then we started to talk in NSFW stuff:( even tho i always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I thinking too much?

I am dating a guy who is 2 years younger to me. He is nice and gentleman kind. I like him a bit and he says he likes me. I slept with him on our 2nd date. I think I have ruined everything. I don't think he won't ask me to...

Starwitch23

Xper 7 Age: 28

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is planning to NOT take any time off to be with me and the baby after I deliver. Am I valid being upset about that?

I'm pregnant and due to have the baby really soon. It's exciting but also SUPER stressful and scary being in the homestretch. I'm a first-time mom, so yeah. Lots of mixed feelings. My boyfriend has those too. That is to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do when the guy i'm dating is too sensitive?

At first, some of it were my fault because I kept disappearing on him due to my own issues mental health etc. We've been talking for 3 months and the first few times we talked on the phone, he came on too strong and...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

Flirting

Is this flirting?

I honestly can’t tell if I’m imagining things or if he’s actually flirting. He’s married but doesn’t wear a ring and mentions things that make me wonder if they’re secretly separated. Ever since we met I’ve had strong...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he flirting or am I imagining things?

He’s married but doesn’t wear a ring and mentions things that make me wonder if they’re secretly separated. Ever since we met I’ve had strong feelings for him. Like scary amounts of feelings for him. Since he’s married I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

In reality do more people actually get away with it (it can be with anything in life) and even take it to the grave?

In an ideal world, it's always the bad person feeling guilty and confessing (risking losing a friendship, a promotion, wedding gets canceled or whatever wrong they did) or the bad guy gets caught talking to their friend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

M/25 broke up w me f/24 after five years of dating due to long distance but is now talking to a girl he met on the internet. how do I win him back?

my boyfriend recently just broke up with me. i started a new job that requires me to travel about a year ago. i get to come home for 3-7 days and then leave for a week or two. he encouraged me to take this job and pursue...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do therapists tell people when they’re being abusive?

Hello everyone. Recently, my boyfriend has not been treating me well (talking harshly to me, talking bad about me to others, making me sad and not apologizing, etc.). He said he wanted to go to therapy because he finds me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, Why does he keep talking to me after all I've done?

Me and this guy have an affair and something big happened, something that shouldn't never have happened. We talk everyday through text, all day, and hang out every now and then. We don't have sex often, we mostly talk....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do if I'm confused between my guy bestfriend and the guy i'm dating?

For context, I've been always in constant communication with my guy bestfriend for quite some time but since January, he really has become someone who shares my pain constantly. We both had traumas and anxieties and...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

When he says he doesn’t want a relationship ship and is in a relationship 3 months later with another girl?

I feel so sad and hurt because I was dating this guy for over a couple months and was so into him. It got to a point where I wanted to be exclusive and he wasn’t ready and in a further conversation told me that he wasn’t...

Daniellep1995

Xper 6 Age: 31

Should you need to be happy with life outside of dating to have a healthy relationship?

I was talking to this guy earlier who got surgery to increase his height because women weren’t willing to date him…which is a feeling I get as a short man myself. However, it seems like he is basing his entire happiness...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it ok for a friend to ask a guy out on my behalf?

I’m really shy and she’s trying hard to force me out of my shell. This includes giving me unsolicited dating advice, pushing me to go out on dates, telling me who to match with and CONSTANTLY asking me to keep her up to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do stop thinking about this and letting it bother me?

I was talking to this girl that I recently met on an app, we had talked for a couple of days everything was going good. Then about three days ago we had gotten into an argument about something. and she stopped answering...

Alexkauf

Xper 2 Age: 21

Advice needed about this. Should I consider this as a sign?

There is this girl I met half a year ago. She had problems in uni, and through a mutual friend, I started helping her (for free from the start). When I "accepted" to help her, I did not know anything (not even gender) it...

Anonymous

(30-35)