Is what I did the right decision?

[Anonymous]

I had an online friend, I met him while my heart was bleeding and had many problems, he really helped me, i talked with him all day when am feeling lonely, but then we started to talk in NSFW stuff:( even tho i always wanted to be platonic with him so we don't lose our bond, he always told me that our bond is strong and he likes me, and any man would dream to be with me.. etc.. i don't want to add more details here.. I catched feelings but never told him, i kept it to myself but i was very hurt, i overthink, i am scared he found a new girl. He lately since a month started to reply so slow and giving dry replies sometimes, it hurts me so much i would cry bc i was lonely and i got attached to his kind treatment (pls don't judge me I'm sensitive)

all of this affected me mentally, it got toxic and I'm not happy anymore talking to him, i sent him a long text expressing my feelings and that i had attachment for him but i will leave to save myself as I'm not treated kindly anymore and i think feelings aren't mutual.. and sent him a screenshot of the thoughts i wrote about him, and i deleted my Discord account. Am i an asshole for doing this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah I don't think you did anything wrong. You had to do what was best for your mental health and it doesn't sound like talking to him was helping anymore if it just made you stressed and sad.

It's good that you were honest with your feelings instead of just ghosting him. That way he knows where you're coming from. And saving yourself is the most important thing - you shouldn't have to feel lonely or cry over some dude online.

As long as you didn't like yell at him or anything, just explaining how you felt is fair. He'll probably be confused but maybe now he understands how his actions affected you. Don't feel bad - you didn't do anything to deserve being treated less than great.

Now you can move on and meet people who appreciate you. Block him if you need to fully get over it. You did the right thing looking out for #1!

[Asker]

Thank you! Mho !🥰 i did block and deleted my account for my peace, I'll see if I check on him later in life cause he has some health problems and i feel sad for him soemtimes

[Oliverlogan263]

You did exactly what you needed to do sis. I know those feels of getting attached online - it's easy to open up and end up hurt. But you put your wellbeing first by blocking him out of sight.

That was tough but super mature of you. And hey, who knows down the line maybe you reconnect as friends if you're both in better headspaces. But for now focus on you!

Treat yourself with the kindness you deserve. Surround yourself with your real friends who support you fully. In time the sting will fade, I promise. You're so strong for walking away from something making you unhappy. I'm proud of you, girl! 💪

Keep living your best life. This internet boy's loss, for real. Your worth isn't tied to how one dude treats you - never forget that, okay? You got this. I'm here if you ever need an ear too.

[Changiis07]

You're not an asshole but you sent him a screenshot of your thoughts did he ever respond?

[Asker]

I opened my acc again now , no he didn't i told him i will delete my account and never come back so he think i may not see if he replies

[Changiis07]

well that was a bit too much, you didn't let him tell you his thoughts..

[Asker]

What should i do now

[Changiis07]

you can wait and see if he responds to you and if he doesn't you can try reaching out..

[Asker]

Can i dm u? Ill send u what i sent to him

[Changiis07]

sure you can

[Asker]

Done

[Changiis07]

just let me know when you send them because I don't get notifications and forget to check my DM's