Search Results: friendship with a guy

How to kindly tell off admirer but not spoil the relationship?

I have schoolmates (males) who are continuously expressing their interests in me but I have my eyes on one guy I want.. Every time I try to let them down it spoils the friendship

linka_pat307

Explorer Age: 21

Am I a bad friend for this? *reupload into correct topic?

Hello all, I'm a 21yr F, I have a friend - let's call her 'coconut', 22 F. Coconut got into a relationship with a guy, he was not a bad person, however, when he was in a relationship with Coconut his 'dark side', which we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why does my guy friend insist on still talking even though he knows he doesn’t have time?

This may be a little long and I’ll try to add a TLDR. I’ve known this man for 7 years now. We used to talk EVERY day, a good amount of the day, until a little over a year ago. Not much changed, but then 9 months ago,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he always in my field of vision?

Okay so this thing has been bothering me for a while. I joined a new school this year. There's a guy in my class who has bad blood with a close friend of mine. They both hate each other to the core. Because of their...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I reach out again/what is the right next step?

I was pretty close FRIENDS with this guy all last school year. We would tell each other most things and be there for each other as friends do. Even though him dating someone Wich I fully respected and supported. Sometime...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I know that a guy is asking me on a date vs a friendly hangout?

Male 31/Female 26, Met on Hinge August 7th, chatted/voice note exchange; I gave him my number on August 12th he texted me the following; not sure if he is romantically interested or looking for a friendship? In my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Married woman desperate to get physical?

She's my neighbor So I am 26 and she's a drop dead gorgeous 40 year old and married to a much older guy We got close as neighbors and became very good friends and I never saw anything beyond normal friendship since...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, a friend told me I was the one who got away. I told him the same for me too. now he seems to have pulled away from the friendship. why?

He was my best friend in high school and several years after, until we lost contact because life gets in the way. I ended up finding him again 6 months ago and it was like no time had passed (its been 13 years). He wanted...

N_Mathson

Xper 1 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, do you try to make ex jealous or regret their decison?

The guy I’m seeing suddenly got a new job on the other end of the state. We have a history of friendship of 15+ years, an undeniable connection that took off over the last year. He’s told me that he can see a future with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are your thoughts on me not trying to avoid cheaters and players that would not make good boyfriends?

It was my experience with some good-looking guys who had previous relationships, but my relationship experience wasn't very positive. Some of them cheated on men and had a lot of drama with my friends. They did tempt the...

SeaStorm1

Xper 5 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

What’s going on here with this girl?

I’ve got Asperger’s, so I don’t read social cues very well. Can anyone explain what’s going on with this girl? This younger woman, *Anna* according to my bestie, *Joyce*; dated this guy that I used to like, I’m 34, he’s...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fake friend or is this normal friendship issues?

I have been friends with this guy for 8 years. We met at work and initially I disliked him because he came across as an asshole. Somehow we became friends because he befriended me. Things were good for awhile. He can be...

Fuzzie

Xper 2 Age: 32

Relationships

Have you done anything wrong in past that you regret now?

Like anything in relationship. Friendship. Etc.. I had sex with my best guy friend girlfriend secretly for 6mnt while they are in relationship... We're not friend anymore n the shocking part is that they both get...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don’t know what this man wants, did he mean “I love you” as just friends?

A guy I’ve been friends with for a long time (10+ years) told me out of nowhere that he doesn’t want more our from our friendship because he can’t hurt me if it stays the way it is. I’ve never told him I have feelings for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this guy giving signs that he wants to be friends with me outside of theater?

We are in tech week of our theater performance and me and this guy are starting to become really friendly. Every interaction we’ve had through the rehearsals, we constantly laughed together and he laughs at all of my...

Popcornthedog

Xper 3 Age: 24

We are in tech week of our theater performance and me and this guy are starting to become really friendly. Every interaction we’ve had through the rehearsals, we constantly laughed

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Why guys don’t contact after sex and how to deal with this situation?

I met this guy through online and we started dating for two months but we talked about it and decided we should just be friends. Then we continued to meet up as friends for about another 5 months. It was pretty wholesome...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I confessed my feelings to a guy and his response was "Thank you for ‘allowing’ me some time to process it?

I confessed my feeling to a guy I've had crush on since last year expressing how I'm attracted to him and his intelligence. Also making him know that there is 'no pressure involved' and he should take his time to process...

Chijoy

Xper 1 Age: 32

Something is wrong with our friendship and I dont know what?

I'm friends with this guy for 8 years. We were close. We're both married. His wife is acting normal to me and he is acting normal to my husband. Although he started talking against my husband again. I told him before not...

Anonymous

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