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Dated him earlier this year but he and I were not at good places and I ended it because I knew he was nervous about continuing and he was holding back on opening up and i wanted more a connection. We also tried to have sex and it was pretty terrible haha.

Continue to current day. I made a bumble profile and I found him on there. I didn't swipe left or right. The next day he walked past my workplace and just looked. (Haven't seen him since) I feel like if anything I need to make the move because he is shy. I am still interested but again he held back last time and just wanted to hookup with people.

His also updated his profile now, it was previous pretty standard, likes music, hanging with the boys stuff, now all of it is into loving superheroes and marvel, that's what mine is. Haha. Help

Just to make things clear, he never hurt me physically.

The outburts usually happen when he's stressed and lately it's almost every other day.

He gets really aggressive, he breaks things, he shouts and then nitpicks at various meaningless little things and then we argue and I just can't help it but feel small, weak. I sometimes cry and wonder if this is normal and whether I am just too sensitive

He has a strong voice so any louder than normal talk from him gets me nervous, when he shouts I almost tremble, get a shaky voice and can't keep on arguing more.

Do you think it's maybe just me overreacting? My father also is VERY hotheaded and aggressive and loud, he even used to hit me for various reasons.

I met this guy online a few years ago from a dating website. He is from England and I’m from USA, and we dated online at first for a little while. As time went on, he stated his mental health problems and how he couldn’t be in a long distance relationship anymore. I didn’t hold him back so he left, but we had been texting on and off throughout the years. He wishes me a happy birthday and holiday, stuff like that.

within the last few months, we reconnected a lot more like more phone calls to texting. He even admitted to realizing that I might be the girl for him since throughout all these years, no woman near him had made him feel the same as I made him feel. He even had a plan where if we meet up within the next 2 years then we can get married considering how much we both went through. I was flattered but concerned since I didn’t want to get hurt again if he wasn’t ready mentally, so I asked if he was sure. He said he wasn’t and then stopped talking to me for a couple of months for a mental break only to reappear as if nothing happened.

I asked him if he still wanted to do that 2 year plan and he said sure, we text somewhat often still now. But, he told me recently that he joined a dating app just because of boredom and was laughing at how women messaged him for sex. I was confused since based off what he confessed, i should be the only one he needs to be focused on. I’m just nervous now that he’s going to try to date other women before we actually meet up and then have his feelings confused on who he likes more, or just trying to have random encounters in the meantime. I mean I can’t control him but we do have a plan to meet up by the end of this year or next year so I don’t understand why would he do this. Please share your thoughts below, thanks.