So yea whenever I like a girl what happens is that i get insecure about my physical characteristics.
I will imagine stuff such as not being tall enough, being too skinny, and being ugly facially.
The previous girl I liked was pretty fair, skin wise, in the sense that she was white. I’m a bit tanned (middle eastern, she is also middle eastern but just not tanned) so I’d get insecure about my skin color, thinking that I’m too dark for her, and also just ugly in general.
The current girl is a bit on the taller side, I’d say about 5’6 - 5’7, so I think that I’m not tall enough for her, especially when she wears heels. I’m 6’0 but I imagine that she won’t like the height difference if she wears heels, her eyes are about at my chin when she wears them. And just like the previous girl I think that she just looks way too good for me.
At some point I start to ignore girls out of insecurity, which I know is an asshole thing to do, but I just don’t feel comfortable talking to them when I accumulate enough negatives in my head.
Anyone here who has/had the same issues and know what to do? Should I tell the current girl I like that I get insecure about stuff?
