Girls, do you feel self-conscious if you are not perfectly toned but still slim?

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The girl I like looks slim but I know she is not perfectly toned. She feels very soft when I hug her or touch her. Don't get me wrong, I like it, in fact I prefer girls who are not firm because it's natural for girls to be softer than guys, but whenever I touch her she seems to be nervous. I noticed girls are really obsessed with being toned and having 0% fat so maybe that's the reason why she is so nervous. Maybe she is afraid I may somehow be disgusted by the softness of her body. Girls, do you really want to be toned rather than soft? If yes, then why?
Yes, I need to be toned to feel confident.
No, I don't want to be toned.
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Girls, do you feel self-conscious if you are not perfectly toned but still slim?
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