Girl asked me (again) why I get nervous, and also asked me if I have a girlfriend. Is she just curious or is there more to it?

[Anonymous]

So yea, a few weeks ago this girl I have a crush on asked my why I get nervous, but at that time I didn’t know what to say so I said nothing to her, and she went away.

What happened now is that she sat next to me and asked me that question again, and just like before, I had no idea what to say, so I just said “tha what?” but she knew that I didn’t ask it because I didn’t understand her.

She then asked me “Have you never talked to girls? Why do you get nervous talking to girls? Don't you have a girlfriend?” and I just shook my head and said “No”.

I had no idea what to say after that but I wanted the convo to keep going., so I just said “I don’t go out that much” which in my language means “I’m not social”, then she replied with “So you’re introverted”.

At that point i was blushing and I could feel blood rushing to my face because she was sitting close to me. I knew I was red but thankfully she was focused on eating her food. I quickly ate mine and left.

I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this. Why does she ask me that I get nervous?

[Pegases]

When a girl asks if you have a girlfriend, what she's really asking is if there's competition.

[Asker]

Competition? Wdym

[Pegases]

She likes you, and wants to know if there is another girl in your life that would be in the way of her being with you. Here's what I always say when women ask me that. "we don't cuddle after sex soooo, no". Works like a charm.

[Asker]

I feel like the reply u mentioned is a bit too much.

[Pegases]

That's fine. So craft a response that resonates more with you. My goal is to get into a woman's head by making her think. And the best way to make a woman think, is to appeal to her emotions. So by me saying I don't cuddle with the girl I'm seeing, she'll be thinking "we'll if I become his girlfriend then he's going to cuddle w me. And I like to cuddle. So I'm interested". So always be thinking about how to appeal to a woman's emotions. It keeps things fun and flirty. Have fun with it. Sometimes the bold move is what will win her over, because most guys are too afraid to make the bold move. Best of luck to you. You'll do fine.

[Guy13]

Learn a no sexual joke. Learn many. Tell a couple next conversation

[Asker]

The thing is i can’t even talk to her normally. How can i make jokes? What’s the reason?

[Guy13]

She will think you are funny. Jokes can be REHEARSED, PRACTICED, RECORDED, etc, therefore, you know you will sound good. It takes recording and effort in mirror. It is worth it.

[Asker]

Hmm alright

[Guy13]

Go for it 👍👍👍

[rachel776]

if she asks whether you have a girlfriend there is more to it

[Asker]

Maybe she is just making small talk. I don't know

[In_Trance]

just curious