Search Results: not interested in sex

Have you ever been approached by someone of the same sex? What was your reaction?

I have had 2 lesbian/bisexual women show interest in me and I felt weird. I told them that we could be friends.

Babygirl_S

Guru Age: 29

Am I going crazy or am I being cheated on?

So this was a birthday for my girlfriends best friend, soo they have a closed backyard that we had a braai and games in, I found it weird that afterwards when it was time to eat she had left her phone behind (something...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Why don't more men learn how to flirt?

One of the weird aspects of hearing guys here talk about their struggles with dating is that almost none of them seem to know how to flirt. It seems like every time a guy talks about his issues, everything is super...

RolandCuthbert

Editor Age: 54

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Dating

I ghosted him but I want to talk to him again?

I know ghosting is immature but the reason why I did it was because I’ve been getting left on delivered for hours without explanation. It wasn’t like that when we first talked. We really did hit it off and hung out a few...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

For the "players" out there, why does my take on monogamy matter?

I mean if you're not interested in anything more than short term casual sex anyway. Why do you care that I'm not monogamous if you aren't? Also, why do you have a problem with me not caring that you're screwing someone...

481632

Xper 3 Age: 48

Dating

After reading this, does this just sound like a woman that hasn’t found the right guy?

28F, I’m leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like a runway model & guys just never approach me. I’m told guys...

Anonymous

(30-35)

28F, I’m leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like a runway model & guys just

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Guy's Behavior

Does my crush really like me or is he just desperate?

My crush expressed his interest in me after he found out that I used to like him. Now he seems to be obsessed with the idea of dating me according to mutual friends and flirts with me pretty aggressively. I don't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I get over fear of rejection?

I am originally from East Asia and I came to England to study. I had no problem attracting people before I came to England but things have been very difficult for me in England. I’ve been trying so hard to make friends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Guy's Behavior

Should I forget this and move on with my life?

A guy stalked me for a year. After we stopped being friends and he made multiple excuses to me and different ones to mutual friends about why he wouldn’t date me. He told me he fears intimacy. He told our friends that I’m...

HappyWoman34

Explorer Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

What did I do wrong be honest, brutally honest?

We hooked up one week ago. I was turned off at his drug usage in front of me and him changing our plan from five guys to drinks at his house but we did hook up He was texting me all through out the week. We meet up again...

Bekaaaaaaaahhhh

Xper 6 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy suddenly get shy after talking to me for 2 years?

I've been talking to this guy and I really love talking to him and recently he's been acting extremely shy around me. He's never been shy with me before. He's been acting different since July of last year. Now Im old but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why would ex of 2 years want to meet up again after breakup, then when I say I don’t want to date anyone yet they go quiet and date someone else?

Were they ever really interested in getting back together or was it just about sex? They found out someone else was flirting with me and that’s when I said I didn’t want to date anyone yet. They’ve been posting couples...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I can’t tell if what I’m been dealing with on dating apps is standard or just bad luck?

Anonymous

(30-35)

28F, I’m leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like a runway model & guys just

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Guy's Behavior

Why doesn’t he want to have sex with me?

I dated a guy for a few months, a few months ago. We never had sex because I wanted to take things slowly. We’ve been spending time together again lately, he’s all for spending the night, cuddling, kissing, etc. but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I told this guy I don’t want to have sex or send nudes so he stopped texting me. A few weeks later he text me again asking to chill?

I made it pretty clear where I stand yet he still seems like he is looking to hook up. What’s the deal? How else can I make it clear that I am not interested in casual hook ups or sending inappropriate pics?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I respond to this?

This text came from a guy I had talked to for a little while. He was actually a really nice person and I did think highly of him. We had a lot in common and talked on the phone for hours. He took me on one date and then I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Does debating and talking about gender differences just an exercise in futility. Or has someone ever talked you into changing your mind?

It’s seems like men and women more than ever talk, debate and argue over gender differences nowadays but to no avail. Some problems get worse instead of better. However there is one issue women talked to me about that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Need help deciding whether I should contact her. She rejected me and at the end ghosted but I still think of her all the time?

SlavaUA

Xper 2 Age: 31

I started “seeing” this girl a couple months ago and it took a while but we started to hang out and have lots of sex. Talked about things that are more serious such as our past and

I started “seeing” this girl a couple months ago and it took a while but we started to hang out and have lots of sex. Talked about things that are more serious such as our past and what we’d possibly like for our futures individually or together. But I always saw in her that she was not very serious in actually getting to know me or be with me. She just had fun with me and pushed away anything that was below the surface, mostly. Then after a while of having sex, and meeting at our places and having few dates to bars or restaurants - she voiced her loss of interest in different ways and it hurt me and made me feel less than and at fault for being too serious or not enough, etc. So then I tried for about a week or maybe a bit more here and there to talk to her and make changes and scale back so that we can still see each other and have sex without expectations (basically I was willing to settle and sell myself short of what I really wanted/needed to feel good with someone). She still pushed me back and said we should split ways. I let her go. She then added me back on snap me a week later and tested all kind of stuff relating to having sex and how she misses me and wants me inside her and cuddle her, even started saying that she’s in love with me and asking me if I am in love with her. Etc. then I called her and found out that she was drunk and a little high. She was out of town for family Christmas. She told me that few weeks from now she wants to see me when she comes back. The next day was Christmas Eve and I called to wish her merry Christmas and all that. No answer. So I went no contact. A month goes by but she was still on my snap. Watching my stories. But she would never post none or had me restricted from seeing it. Then she started posting pics and I saw one where she was back out of town with some guys. No idea who they are. I still didn’t contact and stopped watching her stories. Then she deleted me after posting few more pics and I didn’t watch her story.

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Dating

Am I making a big deal out of this?

we've only been together for a month and an half. He doesn't usually does this but often he told me he'll call me back later but doesn't. Like today we were on the phone and he was getting a call. He answered then...

Anonymous

(25-29)