28F, I’m leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like a runway model & guys just never approach me. I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it & I’m too shy. I know there’s nothing wrong with me, most women seem to get guys so easily. That’s why I’ve been on and off the apps since I was maybe 18, getting matches have never been a prob. Convo always fades, ghosting, lack of interest (goes both ways) & some guys who are crazy. I’ve tried a lot of them, usually I stick with Hinge. It’s always a pattern of the guys I want who don’t want me back & the ones that want me I don’t like back. For maybe the past year I’ve become less and less interested, I reply to matches/msgs every couple of days? A few people have said maybe I’m asexual (haven’t had sex or masturbated in years), assume I’m gay or I’m unsure of what I want. Maybe they’re all wrong & simply I haven’t found the right person?
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Sounds do like someone who is underexposed but with great potential.
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To me it sounds like someone who could have found someone a while ago, but hasn't been trying hard enough. There is hope for you yet!
The problem is you, please don't end up like my aunt who was like you and at the end of 43yrs married a sick mf, being 30yrs + is a deadline, and I salute you if you're still a virgin that can turn the table maybe, I'm sure you won't like me either, remove from your brain the idea of perfection.