Am I making a big deal out of this?

[Anonymous]

we've only been together for a month and an half. He doesn't usually does this but often he told me he'll call me back later but doesn't. Like today we were on the phone and he was getting a call. He answered then continued on talking to me but said he had to finish his work and he'll get back to me. But that was hours ago. Other times he said he will call back and actually do it. A week ago he went a whole day without talking to me and I called him the next morning and he didn't answer but called back a few minutes later. I asked why hadn't he called, did he lose interest?, did he not like talking to me this and that and he told me he had just been tired and busy that he even was falling asleep on the job. He continued to keep me updated after I explained my concern. Then the next day he called and was talking about wanting sex most of the day. He works two job and has always worked two jobs but the communication didn't start slacking until now. am I making a big deal outta this?

[kylee2437]

Never just assume a man is lacking interest just because he went one day without speaking. You don’t know what he is going through and are assuming his lack of response is all about you. That’s a dangerous game to play. Let’s say if he didn’t respond because he was in the hospital. Would asking if he lost interest be appropriate then? I think you should ask him personally and maybe come up with a solution to better communication because you have a right to feel bothered that he doesn’t call back but you should gain better perspective as to why he does that.

[Guy13]

Don’t think so.