Girlfriend did something and I'm not sure it's a big deal?

[Anonymous]

she was pregaming at her girl's house (everyone there was girls and all best friends). basically, her best friend (who is a girl and has a boyfriend) mind you they live together, take the same program and are just best friends, exchanged ice cubes from their mouths, they didn't kiss, it was just using their teeth. I don't know why they did they were drunk and probably didn't see a problem considering it was probably just drunk best friends fucking around. today I told her I didn't love that it happened even though I know there was nothing bad behind the intention. she said she was sorry and wouldn't do it again. am I making a big deal out of nothing. considering she's very loyal and honest

[Guy13]

Have you considered it is something that the girls do to tease her boyfriend? She might just acting and playing around. I am thinking there is some voyeurism taking place here... I am simply guessing from the perspective of one who enjoys voyeurism himself...

[kylee2437]

You are making a big deal out of it. There was no significance of your girlfriend trying to have a romantically intimate moment with her friend, she was just having fun with her friends and playing a fun game.

[Asker]

how do you mean by romantically intimate, I don't see it that way

[kylee2437]

What I meant to say is it wasn’t meant to be romantic.

[Asker]

is this something that girls do, am i in the wrong for asking her not to do it again

[kylee2437]

Playing silly games are what most friend groups do , I would say controlling what she does when there’s no intent to hurt your feelings is harmful to your relationship. Sooner or later, she’s going to learn to stop sharing every detail of what she does with her friends with you

[Asker]

I'm assuming if she does that then it is bad

[kylee2437]

Does what?

[Asker]

if she feels the need to hide what she does

[kylee2437]

Well why make her walk on egg shells because you are simply insecure?