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I’ve noticed some odd behavior from my wife over the past few months. One day last week, a guy came to the door asking for my wife. She shooed me away, and about a minute or two later, he just simply left. A few weeks before that, I arrived home from work early and saw a guy leaving our house and getting into his car and leaving. I asked my wife both times and she said not to worry about it and it’s nothing. Other odd behavior I’ve noticed is that she doesn’t want me seeing her texts or Facebook messenger messages. She’ll get a Facebook message but won’t let me see and when I try to look later on her phone, the message is gone like she erased it. Now, she barely talks to me and won’t tell me if she’s mad at me or why. She just says she has to take care of some things around the house. I haven’t suspected my wife of cheating in the past but this is sounding like cheating. What do you all think?

Assuming you value your relationship, but you're someone who also recognizes that you might be a bit of a (male or female) "slut" sometimes, given the situation you're in, or the type of person you're talking with. When and with who would you consider cheating? This doesn't cover the large number of possibilities for when you might end up cheating, and you don't get multiple choice for when multiple things might need to be in order before you think you'd cheat, but I think it covers a number of common reasons and you can select the primary thing. Also, have any of these things made you cheat before, made you think about cheating (even if only for a half second), or do you think "I'm already aware that if a situation like this came up, I might cheat."