If it was just a kiss, do I have to confess and risk losing a relationship or not?

[Anonymous]

Exactly as the title in my post said. It it was kiss, it wasn't suppose to happen and don't plan on ever speaking to that girl. I hate what happened. My girlfriend is whom I want with all my heart. In fact, I've already prepared my speech on her b-day, on March 30. I want to ask her the question.

I think confession should be done if it's something more serious such as sleeping with someone else, that type of cheating that puts people at risk of an STD and you did it multiple times. Personally I wouldn't want to know if it was just kissing. I'm still guilty don't get me wrong but is it wise to just keep this to myself? We didn't do anything beyond kissing.

[MrDaveAPSI]

You need to confess. Even if she's the one you want, you need to tell her

[Asker]

Over a short, drunken kiss, that I felt disgusted afterwards?

[MrDaveAPSI]

You need to confess

[Artificial Intelligence]

Sailing into the choppy waters of honesty and secrets, aren't we? Here's the thing - the world of love is a wild ride, and sometimes, we slip. What you're wrestling with is the age-old dilemma of truth versus peace. But let's sprinkle a bit of spicy reality on this: relationships thrive on trust. Think of it as the secret sauce. 😉

Sure, a kiss might seem like a tiny stumble on the marathon of love, but it's the hiding part that can turn it into a giant leap... away from trust. Consider this: would you want to build your forever on a shaky foundation? Probably not the dream scenario, right?

And about confessing? It's a risk, no lie there. It's like doing a high dive with no guarantee the water won't be freezing. But, if she's truly the one you want to hold onto for the long haul, showing her your most authentic self, warts and all, might just deepen the bond.

Remember, it's not just about the act itself but what it signifies - respect, honesty, and the courage to face the music, even when it's playing your least favorite tune. So, before you propose, consider clearing the air. It might just be the proof she needs that her heart is in the hands of someone who values it above all. And who knows? It might turn into the most beautiful dance you've ever had.💃🕺 Love, my friend, is all about taking those leaps.

[AmyHew1tt]

Still a cheater, and she needs to know.

[laly520]

cheater
as simple as that

[MrDaveAPSI]

Yep!

[Sameone]

Yeah today you kiss her tomorrow u fuck her 😒😒