A selfish kiss?

[Anonymous]

I really want to confess my feeling to a guy in my class. I think he might like me back. He has been flirting with me. I thought about directly telling him I like him. But even thinking about it, makes me unable to form a full grammatically correct sentence.

So I had this scenario in my head where I kiss him on or near the lips and smile. I know it is probably stupid but I know it would say "I like you" since we don't touch each other that much. (my fault here, I avoid it) I would have the courage to do this because it would be fast and I could force it even if I'm blushing and probably shaking.

The only thing is... I'm afraid it is selfish. What if I took those "signs" the wrong way and he doesn't even like me?

Being kissed by a girl you don't like? What would he feel. I don't want to hurt him. Should I try either way or just keep things the way they are since I cannot confess trough words at all. (not joking even slightly)

If not a kiss, does anyone have any other suggestion how can I tell him without confronting him directly using words. I'll only blush and make a fool out of myself so don't even bother telling me to do that.

For any suggestion and answer you may give me... thanks =)

[dollme777]

Ok well you are very bold, and I like that ; ) but you don't always have to confess to somebody that you are interested by actually saying it...you can show it with your eyes and your smile. Give him that look yeaaa I'm into you, and if you can't do that write it in a letter or if you have his number call him or text him...also if you don't yet have his number you need to get it because when you start talking to him outside of school you will get more of a feel of if he likes you. And you guys will get to know each other on a more personal level hell he may be the first one to say it, if your right about his feelings for you.

[Marfan]

Well, that's one approach. A kiss from a pretty girl is always welcome. But may I suggest...

"Hi. I find you interesting and attractive - would you like to go out?"

Simple and straight forward. You can even practice the scene in your head for a few days and work up to it. Trust me. Yes, it's hard - guys have dealt with it for centuries and none have ever burst into flame. If you don't have the nerve in this day and age to ask a guy, really, why should one stick his neck out for you?