I’ve been with my husband 15 years, that I know of there’s been no physical cheating but I have throughout the relationship caught his talking to other woman. Lately his behaviour has been off, he’s been distant and I actually found viragra in his car, used. He says he bought it for me but we never used it and it was open becus he wanted to smell it. I have also found out on occasions he wasn’t out eith who he claimed. Of course, like most men are he’s clever and can almost convince me I’m going mad. He admits to nothing and will have an answer or response to everything I question.
last week I saw a Snapchat notification, neither of us use Snapchat and he doesn’t have Snapchat installed (only this one time) I have since made a false account, and I don’t know why but I used his exs name. I can’t caught them communicating in 2020 and at the time he used two phones (apparently one for music) I have just added him as a friend and my heart is racing. Will he know it’s me, surely he won’t. He wasn’t aware I saw this Snapchat notification. Will he talk to her and think it’s her, will I find out anything? I’m nervous and scared. Am I doing something crazy or does this seem justified?
