Search Results: some things are meant to be

I have always been curious about this, as I rarely get attracted to people. I just find people more or less interesting than attractive. I have, however, had people say my qualities are very attractive, but I do not know what they imply? I have watched some guys that my friends were interested in saying they found them attractive but nothing was done, or sometimes something happened, but there might be a third party influence in this.

Can someone be attracted to you romantically, or can people be attracted as friends too? I thought through friends, it was "compelling" or "felt drawn to", but that might be the same thing as attraction?

29F & I’ve known a few people throughout my life that just hate doing things alone. Whether it’d be those people that jump from one relationship to the next or those people that just need some kind of company when it comes to doing everyday things (getting lunch, going shopping etc). I’m not sure if I just feel this frustration for those kinds of people because I wonder how they’re capable of just jumping into new relationships so easily, some kind of jealousy? At the same time, I wouldn’t feel happy with myself if I just disliked my own company that much & constantly needed someone there to fill that void, whether it’s romantic or platonic company. I’m very much a loner & have been single for pretty much my whole life, I feel like I’m at the point where I’m so used to it that a man will REALLY need to knock off my socks in order for me to consider dating him. In other words, I’ve done everything on my own including living alone etc, will adding a man to my life be that beneficial? This isn’t meant to sound feminist, I feel like I also question these kinds of codependent people because my mom may be one of them, yes she’s independent but even she’s admitted that she hates doing things alone. Thoughts? And when I say they’re *weak*, I’m talking specifically about this aspect of their life & not overall.