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We’ve been dating for 3.5 years. He moved out of town about 6 months ago. The last time he came to visit him and his kids stayed at my house the whole two weeks. We were planning for me to visit him soon & I told him I’d have to bring my son this time. He said ok no problem. Then the following day he said sister asked if his nephew can fly down with me. So I said um okay two kids shouldn’t be too hard. He was like well I want my kids to come they haven’t been here yet. I said understandable but it’s only one of me, that’ll be 4 kids 5-9 years old plus luggage, I’d love to bring them but that’s going to be too difficult. I’m bringing my son this time because I have to. So he said if I don’t bring them my son can’t come.

Little back story! He was a single father when we met & I took care of his kids up until about 3 months before he moved. They’ve stayed with me while he was working even times when my son was with his dad or spending the night with family members. I took them to school when he needed me to, treated them as my own. Their mom came back in the picture after years of refusing to take them while living in the same city. She would take them a few times a month then when I came in the picture she got even more distant. She would always take their daughter but NEVER the boys. So I stepped up.

If I could’ve driven just so everyone could go I would have but I can’t drive my car that far & he knows that. None of the kids have flown before. 2 are afraid of heights. Not only would I have to fly I’ll have to get an Uber, train & another Uber because he’ll be at work. I can count on one hand the amount of times I needed him to keep my son or do anything for him. So for him to basically say my son is not welcome to his house without his kids being there, after EVERYTHING I’ve done for his children with or without my son being there is soo unbelievable. I broke up with him. Was this situation worth it?

You can just answer the poll if you'd like, but there's also a story time below.😁

I should start off by saying, I'm an outgoing person, I like being around people so I find it very easy to make friends. I think have a hard time understanding introverts who struggle with making friends, so I'm sorry if I sound rude. I dont want to be that way. I hope I don't come across as such. * hug * Okay, ready for story time? Lol

There was someone on social media who was saying that summertime is hard for them because people have not always shown up for them and it makes them feel lonely. I responded with saying that it's important for them to handle situations on their own and not always rely on people but not to give up. Friends can be found in unexpected places.

They snapped back saying I was insensitive and that people end their life because people aren't always there. (Always? Of course not always. People have lives.)

I think it's concerning if somebody always relies on another person. It's part of adulting to figure out how to handle situations on your own I believe. I'm not saying you need to handle everything on your own, but you don't need to sulk around when you don't have someone right there because you've learned how to mentally equip yourself with situations on your own. I've met people like this in real life too.

One guy kept complaining about how he can't make any friends. It was always everybody else's problem to him. The guy was in his mid-30s, no friends.

I used to have a friend who had a photo album and in this album she had 30 plus pictures of all these different kinds of friends who she said did something wrong to her. It didn't take long until she accused me of something I didn't do. And it was the most hilarious one of all. She said I was doing witchcraft in her kitchen when I was making a pot of tea.😂😂I most certainly was not.