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Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?
I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 How do I get this former classmate to stop contacting me after 6 years?
The year I graduated high school a guy who was one year my senior messaged me. We graduated at the same school but we had never talked. He seemed nice enough when we first started talking so I messaged him back and forth...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I confess my crush to an older senior before he graduates?
I have this crush on a guy at my school (that’s how it always goes, right?). I’ve been thinking about telling him that I like him, and in a casual, non stressful way. It’s in terms that I’m okay if he rejects me or...
TimidKoi
Xper 1 Age: 17 Is it normal for people to want to date just for sex at this time?
I met up with a guy I’d met on social media; we were supposed to meet months ago, but the timing didn’t work, so I had to cancel a few hours before the date, and he completely blocked me. A few weeks ago he got in touch...
Carina0
Xper 5 Age: 22 Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
Is he still interested after a great first date and then going silent?
I met this guy on a dating app about 3 weeks ago. I sent out the like first. We matched the next day and we started talking right away. He came in very strong and looked very interested. He would reply fast, flirt, make...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I calmly distance myself from a female coworker for peace of mind?
Never thought I’d see the day I would say I don’t want to talk to a woman but I’m just happier alone not having to worry. About saying the wrong thing if I get em out my life I have no worries I notice when I say little...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean if a guy likes my Instagram story but won’t DM me?
I’ve talked to this guy before, he reached out to me first, but things just simply didn’t work, and I unfollowed him (this was almost 2 years ago). Two months ago, I started following him, but he didn’t follow back, so I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Does this boy like me or am I delulu?
Okay so I need your HONEST opinion on something 😭 There’s this guy in my coaching. He’s very quiet, like extremely reserved, barely talks to anyone, usually sits alone (either first bench corner or last bench...
Anonymous
(18-24) Can you really judge a man’s intelligence just by his appearance?
I was watching a singing band of 11 guys and I thought 4 of them seemed very intelligent, then I googled their resumes online and the 4 guys with the highest paying jobs were the 4 guys in the band that I thought looked...
Did I misread his signals when he ran off after our first date kiss?
I feel like crawling into a hole and never leaving. On Friday evening I went on a date with a guy from a dating app. We had been texting for about 2 weeks prior and really seemed to vibe, so I was excited. The...
Anonymous
(30-35) Which of these natural, unedited photos should I post on social media?
I met the cutest guy on the lakeshore who took me some photos, and made me laugh so much while taking them, he was making funny faces 😄😄😄 So I think the pics ended up cute and natural! Check all of them out and then...
What are your all-time favorite song lyrics to share?
I'll go first: Unnai kadhalitha ganame unakkul vanthen Translation: guy sings to girl: at the moment I first fell in love with you, I came into your heart What are your favourite lyrics? Share them!
Jonettacali
Xper 2 Age: 28 How do I cope with loneliness when men only want casual sex from me?
I can’t make any guy stay. If we’re just talking they’re not interested. If I invite them somewhere they’re always busy, if I sleep with them, they’re interested for a week. The guy I slept with, it feels like he found...
Anonymous
(25-29) His texts suddenly dropped off after we got closer—should I be worried?
I've been seeing this guy for a month now and we still talk everyday and I was just over at his place 2 days ago and had stayed the night but it's like the responses aren't how they were? (A little context) We used to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is this handsome, successful 29M so lonely and clingy toward me?
So I (22F) matched with a guy (29M) last year. He got out of a 2-year relationship with a girl who was a lawyer. He ended things, weren't in touch with her. This guy works in IT, has a remote job (works from his home),...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Should I talk to this cute guy from my college event or leave it alone?
Ok so I don’t know what to do. There was this guy at this event I go to weekly for college. He was sitting alone. I hate when people are alone (as I have been there), and I really wanted to introduce myself while my...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do ex's get triggered when the people they left are better off without them?
I can give a few examples off this. My best friend's wife left him a few years ago. Not only is he happy, he is married to someone who is in my opinion superior in every way to his ex, and the reason his ex left him, I'm...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can a shy girl subtly make the first move on a classmate?
I have a thing for this guy in my class. He's a year older than me and this is the first time I've ever really been around him, so we don't have much of a connection. The problem is that I am VERY shy and awkward. My main...
Anonymous
(Under 18) My long-distance boyfriend cried in my arms—was it just emotions and did I respond right?
I know my boyfriend for 5 months now, and we're on a distance relationship. Before he asked me out and officalized things we had 4 dates, from morning to night as we don't meet that often. The last 2 dates were in a diff...
Anonymous
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