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I don’t have an issue with my girlfriend being fat. Actually, I have a fat girl fetish. Every time I see a fat girl with giant boobs my hormones spike out of control. Which is the exact reason I started dating my girlfriend in the first place.

Within the last year her she’s just gained too much weight. Like way TOO MUCH!!! She’s 5”4” and 300 pounds, and her knees are constantly hurting because she’s too heavy. I usually don’t like talking to my girlfriends about their weight but I can’t be silent about this situation.

I used to be a paramedic, I’ve seen so many people her size instantly dead from heart attacks. Her own father died from a heart attack from being over weight.

I tried multiple times talking to her about her weight. I’ve tried to work with her and come up with a fitness & diet plan for her. Every time I try she argues with me and makes up dumb excuses. She says “I enjoy eating food, and I don’t have energy to work out”. Last night, I had to talk to her more serious than usual out of concern because I’m really worried. She yelled at me and hung up.

I’ve explained to her that I’m still very attracted to her and that I have lots of fun with her body in the bedroom. And that I’m only wanting her to loose weight because I want her to live, but. No matter how I try to convince her, she’ll just fight back and break down crying. What do I do? Do I just sit here and let her eat herself to death?

I'm not interested in her in any way as she to me is just a close a friend. I know recently that her and her husband have had a few problems plus i know from her he is abroad on a work trip.

But just yesterday she sent me multiple shots and videos of herself trying on different outfits - all of which she was looking very seductive in (skin tight dresses, cleavage on display, bum out giving me full 360 twirls etc). I had asked her where she was going and she said she did a clothing haul. In each video she was asking for my opinion.

We do usually send each other memes which are funny and of the banter nature but after this event, one she sent me asked "if I was with you for 24 hours and I couldn't say no blah blah". I didn't respond but this has led to me ask and post this.

There's a lot of occurrences now in hindsight looking back that I should've noticed but I didn't pick up on but I would like some people's advice. Apologies for my ignorance also. Not much experienced in the women and dating scene as much as I'd like.