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As example someone who is involved with a decent woman or man leading them along for sex by saying all the "right" words but which they honestly don't mean.

I am just wondering because a friend of mine just had an issue with her boyfriend. Now she is the softest, sweetest person you'll meet a true heart of gold. Not a pushover but she wants to help, etc., etc. And it's something a LOT of people - friends, colleagues, etc. - have warned her about how bluntly people without her best intentions at heart will use/abuse her.

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Anyway she asked to meet at his house 2 weeks from X date and was told no, maybe a couple of weeks.

Now ever since they're last meet up, instead, he has constantly brought up meeting up at airbnbs. Yes the last time that they met up they did this & had a good time.

But there's something sleazy / cheap about meeting at an airbnb - like a side fling, a hookup.

And that's something she brought up tonight. That airbnb = hookup, what when no to home.

Automatically he gets defensive & offended by the implication.

But the thing is, when she asked to meet at his house like a proper girlfriend / boyfriend relationship it was no.

But for meeting at an airbnb - like said a sleasy / cheap side piece / fling - he's constantly bringing it up, begin gunho about it.