Why my boyfriend got all defensive?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to him on the phone and the connection was bad

So i asked: are you hands free on the phone, can barely hear you

He said: yes... but there is noone else here

I was like:... I know... i just asked because i can't hear you properly...

Where the hell is this coming from? his ressponce? I didn't even think about anybody being there wtf?

[Nifrayu]

Hmmm... I hate to say it but that could be a bad sign. Maybe not though. He could have just misunderstood your question over the phone. So don't jump to conclusions.

[Asker]

My question was simple
Are You Hands Free?
Thats it... where do you see me questioning if there is anybody there?
Bad sign? i feel the same... but what it means, this bad sign
You are a man so you probably know men better
Help me understand
Thnx

[Nifrayu]

I'm just saying it was a phone call. There is a possibility that it didn't come through clearly. Maybe he heard something like "are yo#$%# free?"
Like I said he might have been defensive for a bad reason, but there is a chance that he wasn't. I hope for you that it turns out he wasn't, but I'm afraid that he was. You know what I mean.

[Asker]

Say it
That in reality it was someone else there?

[Nifrayu]

You obviously believe there was. Well you were the one who heard him. I'm guessing the way he said and his tone of voice gave you a bad impression. I'm sorry.

[Asker]

But he send me kisses and called me sweet names

[Asker]

One time he said:
"I had an argument with my R friend, was arguing all night... im not talking to him anymore, i blocked him!
Thats why you could see me online late night."

I was sleeping that moment and honestly i dont fucking monitor when he is online and when he is not
I know with his insomnia he can get up at 3 and start changing whatsapp tunes
I know it i saw it with my own eyes
So for him assuming i monitor his online whatspp time to the point he feels the need to explain why he was late night online is beyond weird to me

I didn't even reply.. i didn't know what to

[spartan55]

So, let me guess, you are all tied in knots over... this? Smh...

🙄

[spartan55]

This is classic female creating a problem when there is none.

[AjayOnTheInternet]

I wouldn't worry all that much about it.