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Me and my friend have had similar age preferences for years and that was to stick to men our age. I’m 40, she’s 39. People have been telling us for years to date men who were several years older than us. This includes our parents, aunts and uncles, each other’s parents, family friends, church members, etc. she’s even had friends our own age tell her that she should be dating older men (or so she says). I decided to give it try last spring after my same age boyfriend who had two kids and massive debt dumped me for being “too good” for him (I supported his broke ass financially), and I can say my luck changed drastically. Current guy is 55 years old and we both agreed we’re stuck with each other. At the end of summer, I had a party and invited my friend (recently heartbroken about being dumped but a guy our age for a younger girl), my boyfriend, all of his friends and all of their wives LOVED her. Every one of them and myself all thought she was perfect for a friend of theirs who was looking for someone just like her, so we agree to try to fix them up (the friend had met her once before at a charity event we were working). BF’s friend is also 55, retired, financially secure, gets a pension every month, good Christian, still works part time, has his house paid off and is looking for a woman to spoil rotten. So we pitch the idea to his friend, and the friend’s response is “that girl is a catch! She’s a nice girl with a good heart, she’s doing something with her life and she’s ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL! Yes, please fix me up with her.” I mention it to her and try to convince her to no avail, she won’t date him just because he’s 16 years older than her. I told her she needs to be dating men in their 50’s and early 60’s, not our age. She said NEVER. I told her then that she’s a stubborn asshole who’s throwing away a good guy. Opinions? I want to show this to her to make her realize this is true. Women have been marrying older men for years so it clearly works.

We both know a guy from work. Two weeks ago we ask him to take his bike for a ride but he said sorry no. After that day I see him everywhere I go at work he is kind when he talks to me. I don’t know much about him but he seems as good guy whatever yesterday we saw that guy outside and my boyfriend was making jokes about beating him and I said stop it he is a good boy. He changed his face and asked how do you know that? He is a good guy huh? We talked little bit about him. I told that we talked the other day and he fixed his bike and he was like he told you that? He didn’t tell me anything. When we finish talking about that guy my boyfriend started asking about other guys like do you know him? Is he a good guy huh? And I was surprised because he told me he’s not jealous but now he was being. I said babe I was just kidding I didn’t even know about that guy until we ask for his bike. He laughed and said yeah I’m joking too but he kept asking about himself like do you know me? I’m great and I replied him oh my god yes you’re perfect and the best. Later on the day we were texting and I don't know how many times he used ‘good’ he was texting you’re good girl etc…I texted him ‘didn’t think you’d resent this much about that guy lol’ he texted me back ‘lol I just found it funny’. Why he is acting like that?