Is it good I finally doing a way to bridge the gap between man haters and woman haters? Both genders have weaknesses?

[Hamptongirlie]

So I’ve been fooled by men who wanted to use and discard me because I feel for the sweet nothing words that they lied to me saying they were gonna marry me give me kids take care of me etc and be together forever. That WORKED on me. Like magic.

in the same way, men are weak as heck to female beauty and allure. I learned this recently because I changed my hair style completely and men who didn’t give me much attention suddenly were acting and saying things I didn’t expect or anticipate at all. This is why women who teach girls to be gold diggers say to level up and look at amazing as you can, use makeup wigs get the perfect look… whatever you have to do to get it. Because men are extremely weak to that. You can easily manipulate men with beauty and attraction.

I used to think disdainfully that men are so shallow. Because I saw the difference in how they act before and after I changed my appearance just slightly. That hair must have given me an allure i can’t imagine. But guys feel it.

my solution is out of compassion for men. I don’t wanna be hateful and call men shallow. They simply have a weakness. It’s stronger in some than others. It’s for female beauty. I want to be kind by not trying to leverage it to get power over men. Instead i want to never try to look beautiful ever again (except if it’s in private with my lifelong husband if I ever have one). I believe the female innate desire to be more beautiful and to wear makeup and look more and more appealing to men comes from a desire for power OVER men.

and I don’t want to contribute to that. In myself. I want to show love and grace to men. Not take advantage of their weakness

[Finchie40]

It’s ok that you did that for yourself , but understand females’ have weaknesses as well , females’ can be very vulnerable to a man she finds attractive that gives her the butterfly feelings , she can have a loving caring partner waiting for her at home and instantly forget about him for this other guy. So yes us men are attracted to a girls’ beauty but it doesn’t mean all of us men are going to be accepting of it. Just because a girl looks beautiful on the outside it doesn’t mean she is beautiful on the inside , Guys’ might try to have sex with a girl like that but if they are wise , they wouldn’t get into a relationship with a girl like that. For a relationship to form and for Love to grow between 2 people, both people need to choose each other over everyone else , remove selfishness for each other , resist temptations for each other. Without that , that relationship will not last the long haul. So don’t assume beauty is the only thing you need to get a guy really
Interested in you , it takes more than just beauty, your inner beauty as well

[Makeushiver]

Why can't a woman be just as capable of enjoying the physicality and the pleasure of sex. I really think that asking for anything more is prostitution under an installment plan. I'm not condemning it and I certainly recognize the need for women to want a certain commitment from the right person at the right time. They face the consequences of single motherhood, STDs etc., more than men. I don't like blowing this horn but I know all of the women I've had as lovers received as much pleasure as they gave-. I think it's the most exciting facet of the tryst. Do all men seem like they are bullshitters with nothing on their minds except their own pleasure? That sounds like a pretty fucked up world and if that's been your experience, I'm sorry but I have never- not from the first time at age 13 until now had sex without making sure everyone enjoyed the party-otherwise, it's pretty much jerking off

[LiamJHayden]

You are better than I am. People who are genuinely man haters or women haters are anathema to me and I avoid them.

[Iron_Man]

Good luck to you

[In_Trance]

It'll never happen