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Why is this handsome, successful 29M so lonely and clingy toward me?
So I (22F) matched with a guy (29M) last year. He got out of a 2-year relationship with a girl who was a lawyer. He ended things, weren't in touch with her. This guy works in IT, has a remote job (works from his home),...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Why do my friends insist there’s a romantic spark with my longtime guy friend?
My friends know that my guy friend (let’s call him Eddie) and I have been very close since we were seven. After the childhood/middle and high school stories, some are surprised that we never hooked up or dated. My best...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys actually notice and appreciate small boobs too?
do they check them out too? or do only big boobs get attention? I'm kinda insecure about my small boobs, while I agree unwanted attention isn't good sometimes I want to be looked at too. I want to put on low cuts and show...
azertytoga
Xper 3 Age: 19 How can a shy girl subtly make the first move on a classmate?
I have a thing for this guy in my class. He's a year older than me and this is the first time I've ever really been around him, so we don't have much of a connection. The problem is that I am VERY shy and awkward. My main...
Anonymous
(Under 18) My long-distance boyfriend cried in my arms—was it just emotions and did I respond right?
I know my boyfriend for 5 months now, and we're on a distance relationship. Before he asked me out and officalized things we had 4 dates, from morning to night as we don't meet that often. The last 2 dates were in a diff...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do guys suddenly chase after me only when I walk away?
Lately, since a recent breakup, I've developed an internal reflex to start walking away from any fellow who is dawdling when I have a "to do" list of places to get to (e. g., if I'm simply at work and trying to get things...
Does his jealousy toward another girl mean he likes her more than me?
So the thing is this guy I was never sure whether or not he liked me. Let's call him Rex. However I witnessed an interaction that made me think - he likes that other girl - not me. I would notice he kept turning to look...
Anonymous
(30-35) Which gender is more superficial in dating?
I would guess women. at least gen Z girls seek guys that are perfect, just like my girlfriend. She found him, she’s lucky! There’s a million metrics women judge us on. Often things you can’t control, like height looks and...
Aizix
Xper 1 Age: 28 My 2nd Date - Update
2nd Date Update: The Cake, The German "Freak," and some Dark Humour... Warning: Some dark, sensitive historical jokes ahead. We both have a very dark sense of humor, so hope it won’t offend anyone here! So we had our...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does my guy friend asking to live with me mean he secretly likes me?
Ugh I can’t stand it. I just don’t answer anymore. My guy friend texted me last weekend if he can live with me because his mom scolded him for leaving the trash out and not taking it out, the week before because his...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys really find sparkly, shiny eyes on a girl attractive?
So I was on a date with that German man, it was lovely… I hope he felt the same way. Because he had very nice eyes and I kind of forgot everything I wanted to say and ask and was sitting there like an idiot laughing...
Is this girl actually into me or just being extra friendly?
I really didn't think of it too much but I started seeing patterns of picking up my food order in which I got more smiles but the person in front of me didn't, one of the things I noticed was I went to grab my order from...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why the world is unfair?
In class there one girl. She doesn’t do anything for classes but manage to get good grades. For example, for one class I did last project bad but all other ones were good. But I got +B, and she got -A. I talked with...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does this guy mean when he tells my good friend "Wow, you've got your very own little cheerleader, here, don't you?"?
I was patching up my relationship with a guy, who I'd stepped away from bc he was emotionally immature and playing games. He tried to work his way back into my life, promising he'd be serious, etc. I gave him the benefit...
Is it disrespectful to your partner to compliment other people’s looks?
Some people think complimenting someone else’s looks is harmless… others think it’s disrespectful when you’re in a relationship. I think it depends on the context. Saying someone looks nice is different from constantly...
7Phoenix7
Guru Age: 35 
What are the best/worst apologies you've given/recieved?
I didn't think much of it actually at first but then I met my alter ego 👺in a dream last night and he was like "you're an asssshhhooollleeeee" would you believe he arrested me? I had to go through the whole thing...
To be or not be …breadcrumbed?
I was seeing a guy for a little while. In the beginning things felt mutual and normal. I asked him what he was looking for, but instead of giving me a clear answer he talked around it and encouraged me to say what I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do male coworkers only flirt with me right before they quit?
I've been at my job for six years and there's always some guys who been there either a year, two years, months or whatever. Whenever some of these guys are about to quit their first thing to do is try to flirt with me...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why are some women attracted to wealthy men and seen as gold diggers?
Two of my girl friends started acting like they were sucking up to one of my guy friends when first introduced to him, because he has an elite look about him (you can tell by looking at him and how he dresses and speaks...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 How do I handle this?
My boyfriend and I just got back together in October after 3 months apart and I've literally done everything a good girlfriend is supposed to do. I cook , clean, make his favorite meals and check up on him and do things...
Anonymous
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