Search Results: things to consider in a boyfriend

Should I break up with him?

Me (26F) has been dating my boyfriend (29M) for 3 years now. In the past year, he moved back home to save money. We've been semi-long distance (2 hour drive) ever since. I love him and he means a lot to me but it just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I ask a former situationship if she wants something casual?

So I dated this girl I used to work with for a bit. Only went on 3 dates, and we got romantic but I never even reached the level of kissing her because I was a bit spooked by the fact that we worked together. Made it...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

May I have a women perspective on this?

I just got dumped by my 1st girlfriend. She broke up with me because I wouldn’t be honest with people at work about our relationship. I was trying to avoid the messiness of the work place but I ended up only considering...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is it wrong to have expectations for my boyfriend to treat me occasionally?

I have been going out with this guy for about a year now. In the beginning he took me out on really cute dates and paid the large bills while I paid the small things (popcorn, a drink, etc.). This habit slowly faded when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why is this guy sweet in messages but not in person?

How do i fix this? I seem to like the guy in messages and in text because he is sweet and often detailed in messages but when i meet him in person, he is really quiet, talks less about himself and he is caring in person...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Relationships

Dating a girl who never got attention by guys.

I recently started to meet up with a girl regularly after school, I first met her while helping her with her high school final project. We both have the same interests and there is deffenitely good chemistry between us....

RiseofArtemis

Xper 6 Age: 25

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Relationships

Boyfriend pulls out from house purchase and wants to travel instead?

Me and him have dated for a year, lived together for 6 months. We met at a time when we were both ready to get on the property ladder and after some debating we considered buying together since we are both high income...

victoriaxoxo

Xper 7 Age: 28

Dating

Was I too hard on my exe's new boyfriend?

Me and my ex were together for some time, after the death of my girlfriend before her. She kept me comforted and helped me get through it. Once I felt well enough, or so I thought, I wanted us to give it a try. But...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Me and my ex were together for some time, after the death of my girlfriend before her. She kept me comforted and helped me get through it. Once I felt well enough, or so I

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Girl's Behavior

Sometime I get visions, what to do?

sometimes i get visions about future and i learned to act by it. my last vision was about getting killed by a someone in a car accident. and after a day i met her. i seduced her and became her boyfriend and impregnated...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why does my boyfriend threatens to break up after having a good conversation about a future?

This is the 4th time he has done this after a trivial argument he started and I'm getting fed up. The argument was about why I'm pouring 1/2 of a lemon into my cup of tea instead of 1 whole lemon and said I wasn't taking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Girls, My girlfriend of 6 months (Latina 28F) has a black spade tattoo on her butt, says it was from long time ago?

My girlfriend says her ex boyfriend made her get it (a 2 year relationship when she was around 22) and she wish she could get it removed but she can't afford it right now. The thing is though is she never said anything...

GrumpleSS

Xper 1 Age: 32

Family & Friends

Do you tend to value men or women's opinions more? Why?

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's all ears and ready to take the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's

Anyways, it made me question whose opinions I tend to value? I am very stubborn and not many people can get through to me. I can only think of one girl who has just really gotten through to me but I guess I notice that it’s mostly been guys, thus I value men’s opinions more.

I don't know if my guy simply values the male view more because he’s so insecure and intimidated by other men, which he says all the time. But I value the guys perspective because I want to know how to captivate, communicate with, and better understand the gender that I’m attracted to.

Some may call that a “pick me” but I don’t consider it the same thing. I feel pick me’s seek validation while I more so want advice and guidance. Who better to understand a guy I’m into than a guy himself?

If I wanted advice on how to improve my appearance, dress style or to better control my emotions, then I’d seek a woman’s advice since we better understand one another’s insecurities and reactions. I rarely ask other women for advice on guys though because so many take it as competition to go after that same guy. Its so weird. Girlcode always seems to go out the window.

Another thing could be that I grew up looking up to my grandpa more than anyone else. I also got along best with my male cousin and my uncle. My friends have always been 90% guys. Like, my mom held it down for a bit but her inconsistent behavior and broken promises really got to me. So I stopped looking up to her. Maybe she, my grandma and a bunch of flaky female friends and cousins ruined it for other women too.

Some men have wronged me but never as many men as women. I guess same can be said for my boyfriend since he feels more women have wronged him yet all I ever see these days is men treating him badly. #FeelFreeToList

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Relationships

When You’re Doing The Most

How would YOU define or differentiate between these five words— territorial, jealous, possessive, clingy, overprotective? Would you consider some, none, or all of the above to be a toxic trait? Have you or someone you...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Dating

Boyfriend got really mad (really fast), refuses to speak to me and won't resolve things. What can I do to fix this?

We got into a fight a week ago. He hasn't spoke to me since. I still have some of my stuff at his place and he hasn't told me to get it or anything. He hasn't said he wants to break up officially, he just asked for space...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What are your thoughts on these 5 things?

If you’re not being treated right in a relationship and someone comes along meeting all that you hoped for, and they are all for y'all giving it a go once you simply end things with your boyfriend/girlfriend to be with...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Relationships

My friend always brags about her relationship. How do I get her to stop?

I honestly dont consider her as a friend anymore because of the things she's done to me. I thought it would be nice for me to hook her up with my boyfriend's friend. So when they dated, she wrote in a group chat (that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend is a nice guy but often only thinks of himself. What can I do & is there a way to handle this?

My boyfriend is a nice guy and we've been dating for about a year, but I've noticed some annoying patterns. He sometimes only thinks of himself. For example, he went to play tennis & we were supposed to get coffee after...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do some not appreciate a good woman who showed him so much love once she's gone?

I finally built the courage to break up with my boyfriend. Everything reciprocated at first.. small and sweet gestures, the affection, taking care of eachother, etc. He used to come over a lot Then it came to a point...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do you think I have reason to be concerned about this female friend?

I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and things are going well in all ways. The other night we went out for cocktails, and were both a little tipsy. We were talking about how his best friend can be easily...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is he wanting a breakup?

I just went on a vacation with my boyfriend and at the end of it driving back home he all of a sudden brought up if him not believing in God was a good or bad thing. I told him it's not bad everyone is entitled to their...

Anonymous

(30-35)