If you’re not being treated right in a relationship and someone comes along meeting all that you hoped for, and they are all for y'all giving it a go once you simply end things with your boyfriend/girlfriend to be with them, then…
#1 Why do people outside of the relationship consider them to be THE REBOUND rather than referring to the new guy/girl as the potentially BETTER OPTION? (Especially if you’re feeling emotionally available and only focused on the present and not the past partner)
#2 Why is it considered some form of emotional cheating to have seen better in someone else and choosing to leave to see if the grass is greener? (without physically cheating/acting on it)
#3 Why do people feel you need time to heal to get over someone? (A lot of people checkout emotionally long before they physically leave).
#4 Aren't these options better than staying with someone who is not right for them? (Sure they could be alone for a while but why pass up a great opportunity that crossed your path. That person may not be single later).
#5 Why do some girls and guys try to ruin your relationship with someone but then decide that they also do not want you after you have left your boyfriend/girlfriend for them? (Like was it all just a game about the chase/a challenge accomplished)
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