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When I know for sure a guy is being a true douchebag to a woman I will call him out. I’ve given women on GAG advice on how to handle these situations after I get the full story & details of what happened.

Not only is it wrong for a man to abuse women but it makes the rest of men look bad. We are already getting judged as a whole in modern society. The last thing I want is more examples modern feminists can use to disparage us.

But I do not call out other men just to “impress women” especially when I know the guy isn’t bad but maybe just socially awkward or (harmlessly) weird.

But there are a lot of “modern guys” who do that bs nowadays and it’s disgusting They will throw other men under the bus when they know it’s unfair but their goal is to impress women. Sadly it often works for them.

I have met a handful of awesome women who will call out female bullshit when they see it. I do not think they are doing it to impress men either.

However I really do not see this often enough. On one end women know that men prefer to fight their own battles. However there are some battles a man just can’t win when they are dealing with shithead females. For example there is little a man can do to fight back at being unfairly labeled “a creep”. But another woman can effectively call out a cunt female for doing that much better than any other man can when she knows what’s going on.

However I rarely if ever see feminists calling out other women who:

• freeload and mooch off men
• use their bodies to make money (onlyfans).
• physically assault men and cry victim when a man hits her back.
• file (proven) false abuse/sexual assault allegations. Feminists never called out Amber Herd.
• Use their gender to get job promotions yet underperform at their job.

It just seems women often give bad women “a pass” more often than men do. Why? Men don’t give other men a pass to act like a douche bag just because the man has “feelings”. Men judge other men on their actions not feelings.

For the most part I care to do right by people including women. That’s not to say I haven’t ever done and said things I regretted. That doesn’t I might have a few personality quirks that women don’t appreciate. But I do know I’ve overall try to do right.

But I also know there are some true POS guys out there. Abusive and violent men. Sociopaths. Psychopaths. I know damn well not every guy would react to a situation as thoughtfully as I would.

However find myself often initially give the other guy the benefit of doubt when I hear an abuse or sexual assault story from a woman. I will however convict the guy mentally if there is actual hard evidence to prove he really did something.

But while just hearing some woman’s verbal testimony I often find myself thinking “what if tha was me” she was accusing? I know I would never in my life do anything like the abuse stories we hear about men harming women. However if I don’t know the accused guy well I often keep asking questions about the incident to gather more info. I want to see if the woman is changing her story or leaving out crucial details (e. g. a woman claims a man hit her. But did she hit him first?).

But again it’s very naive to assume another guy would react and behave the same way I would in a situation. I never rule out he might be a truly violent abusive POS.

But do women second guess other women while hearing abuse claims? When they hear stories is there ever any doubt in their minds about the other woman is saying?

I bet some think twice about it. But from my observations women often immediately imagine themselves being the in the place of the victim in the verbal abuse story. Not all but they seem persuaded very quickly and take the other woman’s story at face value. Sometimes is the complete truth but not always. But are women able to imagine the possibility that the other woman might be malicious and a liar?