Why can a girl be abusive In a relationship but convince everyone’s she’s the victim?

[Anonymous]

Like she physically hit me twice she has hit, kicked and slammed our dog. Like he has a dent in his crate from her slamming him on it. She constantly called both of us nuances, she frequently called me a stupid motherfucker, bitch. Once I was bending over to pet my dog and she kneed me. So I have gone through all that and she has been able to convince her friends and family that she’s the victim and made me out to be the bad person even when I tried to draw attention to it saying maybe she needs mental health treatment for clear anger issues they would call me crazy or say I’m the one who needs help. This shit has royally fucked me up and seems like a double whammy you live with the abuse you went through but also the fact no one seemed to care and would rather frame you as the bad person.

[Anonymous]

All you can do is appreciate the people who stood by you and didn't blindly believe her. Look at the positive. It's a good way to know who didn't deserve to be in your life to begin with. Let them tell on themselves and find better people to surround yourself with.

I've been in a similar situation. I learned very quickly who my true friends were, and things did get better. Good luck to you brother

[cloud9vortex1234]

The majority of guys are automatically blamed as the ones in the wrong in situations like this even when they don't deserve it. Most people are too fucking lazy to think any other way. Your going to have to get her on video and show it. I would assume you don't have a way to easily leave if your in this situation.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand it either. That's horrible. It's toxic stereotypes and beliefs around genders that cause these illusions. It's just sad

[sheikalana]

It's easy for people to feel sorry for women.