Search Results: when will I get over him

A girl might be like he’s the perfect guy - 6 months in dating she is used to him, he is not novelty, no matter how hot + rich etc...

That ‘other’ guy she sees on social media with the abs is novelty as she never had that.

Like with me apart from fame + defined six pack I do have every gift a man can have and I’m a nice guy. I can see my girlfriend getting more and more comfortable around me. She no longer compliments my tall height and ultra luxury things my family own or my looks, career as much. Like I am hung because I’m so fat but I’m only a bit longer than average.
She’s getting over all of it. I can see it.

Women want more and more, they want the novelty.

Best to just get happiness from yourself as no girl will make you happy.

Getting a girlfriend has made me realise, it’s only about your relationship with yourself that matters no other girl will complete or fulfil you.

OH MY , 60 republicans incumbents have been beaten by Democrats in deep red parts of Texas and Florida. Even Trump supporters must admit Democrats will have a Blue Wave in November. if gas gets to $9 a gallon by election day , it is all over but turning off the lights. This lady Gregory is now Trump's representative in Florida. Looks like Florida will go Blue and Texas might go Blue. Economy is getting worse, higher prices, gas skyrocketing. Kids being killed overseas. Inflation going back up. National Debt exploding. What do Republicans have to run on?

I would say Independents might help Republicans but they will just take votes away from Republicans and help Democrats.

I have not really gotten off the ground running on just about everything in life. It is really hurting my self-esteem and has left me feeling ignored, irrelevant, bored, and feeling like I am losing my ever fucking mind.

I will provide a few examples:

One, I have been trying to sell my independent web services. I am a talented web developer. I acknowledge AI is making it easier to create web apps and websites, but not everyone has fully adopted it yet for these purposes. I had a few clients and created websites for them last year. I received mostly positive feedback, and I offered my services for a steal. I was supposed to work on one more website for another small business, and it has been over 6 months and I haven't heard a thing from them. That is now $1,500 I will not be getting. They are a landscaping supply company, so this time of year would be ideal. Meanwhile, I launched a website trying to gain clients. No calls, no web form submissions, nothing. I advertise, sometimes cold call, reach out to other recruiters and company owners... nothing. One of my clients from last year that I was told needed updates, they have yet to provide me with anything. Potential and existing clients are pulling back.

Then, I am spending a lot of my time now trying to advocate and raise awareness about our crumbling public safety infrastructure in my state, as it has become very problematic. I have spoken with news organizations, and they now either lie saying they will "get to it" or I am ignored and sidelined.

I feel like I am not taken seriously now, and that I have become irrelevant.

I think its because men can't get over when a woman doesn't choose them so they think of stuff they feel will stick as a way to 'get back' at you women.

The actual reality is a lot of women tend to be happier single than men here's a nice study on that:

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/19485506241287960

and another link for good measure:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2024/11/09/4-reasons-why-single-women-are-the-happiest-people-on-earth-by-a-psychologist/

So to all the men on here making this dumbass accusation: get over yourselves! You weren't chosen for a reason. look within and figure it out. I did and now things are much better! introspection work!

And to women if you come across any dudes who try to berate you for not choosing them or saying other misogynistic or incel shit... just laugh at them. mockery especially by attractive women will get to them more than anything else. thats my advice to you.

anyway just wanted to rant. Focker out! lol