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Why are men and women so quick to become step parents but not quick to become an actual parent?

For example I have a friend who is 29 male, and he mentioned the other day that he is “ready to be someone’s step daddy.” And I hear phrases like this all of the time. However, for a woman like me who does not have...
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Should I continue talking to this guy?

I am talking to a guy who’s still legally married but separated from his wife who moved across the country. They are going through the steps of getting a divorce. We are becoming close and getting to know/understand each...
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I have a lodger which makes my dating life difficult to keep private?

So I have a friend who is currently my lodger- which works great for bills. However when it comes to have a cheeky date over who I’m just getting to know at this point it’s hard as my friend instantly knows my dating...
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Why is it more hurtful if a woman was also used for money?

My friend's female cousin finally dumped the user. She's single now and not ready to date yet. He wasn't just into the sex but also faked loved and also their initial friendship. She's also suing him because he's not...
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What are we? He doesn't know and neither do I?

Known him for about 10 months. We met at my job. He asked for my number and told me I was pretty. So we began texting and he called me. From there we called and texted pretty much everyday. He wanted me to come over to...
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Can you help this fucking idiot?

Firstly, I'm a fool, i take action before thinking and that shit ruins everything in my life. I like a boy, we are more than friends. we were in dating phase but it was all in private. his friends know about me and...
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Got me f-ed up?

This girl lived with me for 4 months but then got arrested. Well the whole 120 Cays she was in jail we talked and planned and i kept money on her books and etc. Well on her release date she had two other county to answer...
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Can someone tell me what she means?

I told my friend a few weeks back that maybe was should date, she said she was not in the right position at the time to date. I don't know if she is not ready for it or if it's a no. Maybe she's thinking about it. Help...
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Is it too soon?

I've been seeing this guy (30M) for almost two months, I spend two night every week with him, we both have kids so of course they are around too. We are both seeing each other exclusively. In the beginning he was very...
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Any significance to her inviting me into her home?

I recently went on a second date with a really nice girl. We get on well and have had some basic physical contact such as hugs etc. We haven't kissed yet as she's not quite ready. We had a bit of time before our...
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I’m going through heartbreak and I’m not sure how best to move on. Any advice?

I briefly dated a guy for 2 months and things moved pretty quickly. I was so in love with this man and I’m not sure why. Maybe it was infatuation. I told him I love him after 1 month and a few days. Things seemed to go...
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Am I doing the right thing now?

I've been on a couple of dates with a really sweet girl. It seems we connect nicely on a personality level. It all feels very natural. We went out last night and things were going so well. She invited me into...
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Why is my dad always on me for everything I am doing, and I am 36 years old?

I just turned 36 years old, and I feel like a child. I want to be the Adult I want to be, but I can't because my dad is on my ass all the time. When I go to the gym, when I go to work, who I date, if I forget to do...
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Would you consider my brother to be overprotective?

I’m very close to my brothers but one in particular, we are like best friends. He has always respected my decisions and supported me in everything. For many years I refused to be in a relationship because I didn’t feel...
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When do you know to move on from a man who isn't ready for a relationship?

Back in July 2021 this guy i would always ignore started talking to me. He would always approach me and want to know me more and flirt with me. I always tried avoiding him but sometimes it was impossible. I started...
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What's the best way to get a girl's snapchat?

I don't like talking on whatsapp or instagram I am ready for a date or snapchat would be best, and I have observed, girls don't easily share their snapchat, what to do?
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Love the one you're with or be with the one you love?

About 6 months ago I decided I needed a change in my life and decided to move to a new city. Just one month before moving I met a girl. We dated briefly and after I relocated she came to visit me twice. It was really nice...
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Girl asked if I was planing on ever asking her out, but she never has time. Is she just playing games?

So I know this girl form work (same building different companies), she sent me a friend request on Facebook. We would constantly text and talk in person and it turns out we have a lot in common, eventually she gave me her...
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What do you do to get ready for a first date/initial meeting?

I am not suggesting that all of these things SHOULD be done before a first date, other than perhaps a shower and shave. I never expect a woman to come home with me on a first date and changing the sheets seems silly (but...
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I am not suggesting that all of these things SHOULD be done before a first date, other than perhaps a shower and shave. I never expect a woman to come home with me on a first date and Show More
Shower and shave
Shoe shine
Haircut/styling
New clothes
Get car washed or detailed
Clean my house and change the sheets on the bed JUST IN CASE!
Make sure I have food to prepare for breakfast the next morning JUST IN CASE
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