Search Results: red flags

What's something that most people regard as a red flag in a relationship, that you think is no big deal?

PointlessNonsenseGuy

Xper 4 Age: 18

Which is a bigger red flag? A date with zero online presence, or a date with a massive online presence?

CupcakeTheDestroyer

Master Age: 32

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Is he really the person he paints himself to be?

so i have a crush on this guy in university, he's very cultivated and knows a lot about politics and philosophy (he even sounds like albert camus), plays guitar, posts pictures in museums, he's also very softspoken and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What are some red flags to look out for on a first date?

ellefia

Xper 5 Age: 20

Girl's Behavior

Women that have multiple baby daddies?

a woman has kids with multiple guys and none of the fathers stick around. Would you considered that as a red flag.

Antmound1

Xper 4 Age: 37

Ladies, lets say you agree to a date with a guy. You like him but he pulls up in this old car. Red flag?

And guys have you ever had a date either stop seeing you because of or making complete fun of your car?

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

And guys have you ever had a date either stop seeing you because of or making complete fun of your car?

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Family & Friends

Is calling CAS on someone beneficial?

I'm concerned for this man's children by several things he's said. However, I don't know if he's actually done anything. I'd like someone to check on them but don't want th family to be traumatized if they've done nothing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Why does it feel like that being autistic in a dating scene is as red flag?

As an autistic male I find it difficult socialising, forming friendships but it’s even more difficult talking to girls, attractive girls and getting into a relationship. I never been in relationship beside and I’ll be 30...

JamieRobinson1994

Xper 6 Age: 31

My boyfriend followed an OF girl and then lied about it. Am I overreacting?

I have been with my boyfriend for a month and since we have been talking he hasn't followed explicit accounts. So it’s weird that one month into us dating I see that he recently followed this OF girl. We have talked about...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If a woman says these 6 things, its time to avoid her and end the date or relationship.

1. All My Ex's are crazy. I know what you're thinking, maybe she just has bad luck. Well my friends let me ask you this, if everywhere you go smells like dog poop, maybe it's time to check your own shoes right? The Same...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Should I end my engagement due to his baggage?

My fiancé and I recently got engaged. However, I am starting to second guess things. He is the best man I’ve ever dated. I really felt that he was the one. He truly is a good man. No man has ever made me feel the way he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it less or more attractive to you if a girl has been in a Long term relationship?

was in a 7 year relationship my high school sweetheart. things didn't work out. can't tell if im a red flag for letting someone lead me on that long or if it looks good that i was dedicated to someone so long

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Is it a red flag if a guy has kids that he is no longer in touch with?

I have been seeing a guy for a year. During the beginning, I asked him "why are you unmarried at your age 43?" I found it a bit unusual why a guy like his age would still be unmarried. He replied "I had always been...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is it a red flag if only ebony women & Asians women are the only ones investing time in me & white women have no interest in speaking to me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I am obsessed with a guy who dont want a relationship, he wants to hookup, I tried to stop talking but I feel he would replace me so I go back again?

Whenever I like a guy I have the behavior of ignoring every red flag and putting him on a high pedestal. So I did the same again. This guy don't want a relationship he just wants to hookup with me. Whenever I try to leave...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you think of dating advice given to men which says to be absolutely honest with women?

That means if you love a girl you barely know, you should tell her. If you see a beautiful woman you should say you think she's beautiful and you want her to come home with you and fuck you. Whatever it is, no matter...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

Dojo Girls pt 3: Why does this happen and what am I feeling?

A month and a half ago, I was at another martial arts camp, sparring with another girl. I even stood/sat beside her at the final assembly, after which the two of us got up and shared a hug. During that hug, I felt my...

JHNS98

Explorer Age: 27

Do you guys think I could possibly be missing some red flags? or am I overthinking?

I have been talking to/getting to know this guy for about a month now. He has been a gentleman, very patient. Our conversations have been just the two of us getting to know one another emotionally. Seeing where we connect...

Anonymous

(25-29)