My boyfriend followed an OF girl and then lied about it. Am I overreacting?

[Anonymous]

I have been with my boyfriend for a month and since we have been talking he hasn't followed explicit accounts. So it’s weird that one month into us dating I see that he recently followed this OF girl. We have talked about how he thinks it’s disrespectful to follow explicit accounts like that when you have a partner. I asked him about it and he said he didn't know how it got there and it must've been a mistake. He promised me that he didn't know, but how does that just appear? He unfollowed her, but is this a red flag since he lied?
It's not sitting right.

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+1 y

no that was plane rudeness u fucking asshole

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, you're not overreacting at all! That is so disrespectful of him to do that and then lie about it so blatantly. Ugh the audacity of some men.

Of course you're not gonna believe the "mistake" excuse - as if it magically followed itself! You both agreed on boundaries and he crossed them already so early on. That's a major red flag sis.

You deserve so much better than some lying boy who doesn't appreciate you. His loss! Don't waste any more time worrying about what he says or making excuses for him. You caught him slipping up and that's that.

I say dump his ass and find someone who'll treat you with respect from day one. You don't need that bs so early in a relationship. Keep your chin up - his dishonest actions are reflective of him, not you at all! You're amazing just as you are.

Treat yourself to something fun this weekend with your girls. He's not worth another thought - next! You've got this.

[spartan55]

If he unfollowed her then what's the problem? I would be careful about using the 'liar' label unless you have proof. Since you feel the need to keep surveillance on him you obviously don't trust him anyway.

[avery58]

There's a chance he followed her by mistake, just like when you accidentally like a post. But you'd think he would have noticed after some time if that were the case.

[leahzrc]

Lmao my ex had an only fans and he would put dildos in his butt. I don't know what is worse