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these type of things keep happening to me.


Okay here s what happened:

i ve been working in this company for around a year. When i first got here there s a guy (i would call him A) in finance department, a manager, and the boss s brother.

there s a HR , really like gossiping, keeps telling me to consider dating A. I was like “ i dont know him at all” then she even started thinking about planing on a hangout/event. I casually rejected.


One time we were in a Christmas party at the office. He did sths and said something that made others thought he was defending me. Then the people started smiling at me.

but i dont think i can date people from my workplace. It might turn into nightmares… or it could be a trap so they can make fun of me.

I ignored them for months. Then they started calling me arrogant / waiting for people to chase. I was annoyed so i told them i reached out to a speed dating company. They have stopped.


RECENTLY THEY STARTED IT AGAIN. And one person sent me pic of him talking to another girl told me to make a move or else it will be too late. I was little bit sad at the beginning but now i m alright.

what would u do if u were me?

My boyfriend is very outspoken and he tells it like it is - he’s like this with everybody…

he was telling my mom about the importance why I need to get a better job if he and I move in together later on…he also made it clear that we want our own place because my mom kept asking my boyfriend to move in togther at my moms house - the 3 of us…. my mom then told him she appreciated his honesty…

now today my mom seemed to be in a bad mood and told me that she thinks my boyfriend is very sharp tongued and it’s up to me if I wanna continue with him…meanwhile she says she likes the guy overall and we match…

what was she implying? Why couldn’t she be more direct with my boyfriend if she thinks he’s so sharp tongued? Is she feeling jealousy or resentment towards my boyfriend and relationship?