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I have a crush on one of my colleagues. We flirt like crazy and we are close. Would you consider this jealous behaviour?

- I was telling my manager that I was going out on a date. In the corner of my eye, I saw him look over in my direction. When I said “have a nice weekend”, he just said “bye” abruptly whereas he would normally say “you too”

- I was putting some lip balm on and he joked saying, “putting makeup on for the new guy?”

- When I got a lift to work from another guy, because of bad weather - he called me a “wimp”. The next day I asked him for some help and he responded with “why don’t you ask (name of guy who gave me a lift to work)?”

- When I’m laughing and joking with a male colleague, he goes quiet and doesn’t really interact

- He was offering me a lift to the staff do and I politely declined because someone else was talking me. He then asked me if I didn’t trust his driving

- I was chatting to a male colleague and he interrupted us saying “what are you two jabbering about”

- I pulled some fluff out of a male colleagues hair, the guy in question said “you just wanted to touch his hair”

So I have explained the before in my past posts, I went to this breakfast thing at our local public high school. We go to private school. About halfway through dinner my crush his sister and her friend decided to show up. His sister and her friend went up to me and said, why don’t you go talk to him he is right there. Of course I was embarrassed, but they got him to go to this hallway. He started running around the halls and he doesn’t know this place at all. He came back eventually and his sister and her friend left to go back to the lunchroom. These girls who are a few years younger than us came and got into all of this. One of them talked to him for a minute but he wouldn’t talk to her unless I was gone, so I went around the corner. The girls left and we talked a little bit. He eventually said I know you like me but I can’t see us together. Ik it sounds bad but there’s more. So he left the hallway and I guess he talked to his sis for a sec. His sister, her friend, and those girls came into the hallway. His sister said forget everything he just said wait on him he will come around. He really does like you he talks about you all the time. He says how your pretty etc. He never says anything bad about you. The reason he said that was because he can’t date or like anyone because of his grades rn. The girl who talked to him earlier said that he said he likes me and stuff too. I’m really confused what should I do.

I've been with a few guys that have been exceptional in the past. They were so respectful, they treated me like a princess, they made me feel so special and secure. Unfortunately, things didn't work out, mostly because of bad timing, unhealed traumas, relocations... Now I feel like it's so hard to settle down with someone new, even if they're absolutely great. I really want to be in a relationship, but I can't find anyone that meet my expectations anymore. My friends say I'm too picky and should compromise more. Even when I meet someone very nice, smart, handsome, I feel like I can't be with anyone less than outstanding. But at the same time, I've grown so tired of spending my time looking around and I really start to feel lonely. I don't know what to do. Both options feel risky, because if I keep my standards so high, I might end up all alone, but if I settle down for less, I might be missing out on something greater. Have anyone been through this?

Example:

He's a single man that never had a relationship nor date ever. He knows it's wrong, doesn't want to ruin a child's innocence, never acted on his urges, never downloaded anything and he even feels terrible to even fantasize about children (he hates himself), is he still a bad person?

He wouldn't be a child molester since he never acted on those urges. But he would be suffering from pedophilia. Is he still be a terrible person just for even seeing children as attractive, for even thinking about children?