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She is an office mate, and I have to add that she is a fat girl, and I am saying this, because people think that this may have relation.
When I started meeting her in the office; and I began to be interested in her, she became "crazy" because I was interested in her. I also saw her, because she was constantly looking for me, she would come in an hour before to see me, etc. She began to tell me to meet, and like "whenever you want", "wherever you want", "I'm going to look for you" with a lot of desire. Soon we met, we went to dinner and then we spent the night together; I interpreted that it went very well; In fact she don’t wanted to leave, she wanted to stay with me, but I had to work. Until there everything seemed perfect. In fact, in a later discussion, she told me that she had a great time when we met and she was delighted. The thing is that we kept talking all day, she worried about me. Let's see, everything was fine, but when it was time to meet again, she didn't say no but we didn't meet; It was like she was scared or something.
Like this for months, and when I was tough and told her to stop talking few days later she was looking for an excuse to talk to me again. When talking about the subject it was impossible to get anything out of her, that she does think I'm very hot, that she likes me and such.
A week ago I left for another job and asked her more thoroughly. She told me after insisting again after many months, that she was comfortable with me but that she knew that for a night of sex she was not going to be the woman of my life. That she didn't expect me to want anything more than that with her and that it scared her. I asked her several times about the fear of a relationship with me and she didn't answer any, she just insisted over and over again that she didn't want to lose contact. Several people have told me that they didn't expect me to notice her and we don't hit as a couple, due to her physique. Because we talked and even so she complimented me.

Kind of a sequel to this question here. Things have been changed up a bit. Which one would you rather have, given these options?

You have a Genius Intellect with a 200 IQ and the potential to solve most non-personal problems in society, with a highly respectable (but not profitable) career, but will always undateable and seen as physically unattractive to everyone of the opposite or same sex (regardless of how you look in the mirror) and will never get married, and will die a virgin, no matter what.

You have a perfect-looking body that is seven inches taller the median height, naturally fit and powerful without exercise, naturally well-endowed (big boobs or dick), with perfect teeth, a 9.5 out of 10 flawless face that seems to stop aging after 25, and a 100 IQ, but will never be rich or wealthy and will never earn more than $43,000 USD a year. You'll always have to work a 9-to-5 job until retirement and can't marry/date anyone rich, either.

You have very wealthy and influential parents and have known wealth and extreme luxury your entire life and will never have to worry about being poor or finding work, but you are mentally (literally) retarded with an IQ of 70, have learning disabilities like Dyslexia or ADD, and are only median height with equal looks.

You reject all the above options, leaving this as the last and only choice left. You choose to be mediocre and all-around valueless to society (aka, average) with a male height of 5'10"/178 cm, or female height of 5'5"/165 cm, with 5 out of 10 looks, an average weight and body, subpar endowments (6" penis, or C-cup bust), with a 100 IQ, earning an average individual salary, with a spouse and two kids (one son and daughter), with a meaningless job and a ho-hum life in a small town somewhere. You will never be smart, never be attractive looking, and never be rich.