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I was on this site with the same issue about 6 months ago. My girlfriend stopped having sex when we used to have a good sex life. At the time, her reason was that she’s on antidepressants and it kills her libido. I stayed by her side trying to be a good supportive boyfriend. But now her excuses are getting more and more pathetic.

Today she told me come over and we’ll have good sex. I went over and we did a lot. We went shopping, made dinner, worked out, and showered together. When it came time for sex she said the house is too cold to have sex. So I turned up the heat and we watched tv while waiting on the house to warm up. She fell asleep on the couch now saying she’s “too tired”. I’m really to cheat. Should I just drop this girl?

I don’t feel like a have a girlfriend. Feels like I’m hanging out with my sister.

A traditional woman used to pride herself on serving her husband. Something that most men place great interest and satisfaction in.

While many modern women claim to be completely independent and do not require a man; a man’s happiness is largely based in being a provider and being appreciated for his efforts. If a woman has no need for him and does not bestow gratification upon him for his labours, what benefit should a self sufficient man hope to gain through an unnecessary relationship?

Most Men are fully capable of providing themselves with every personal desire and need. Besides sex and children, the independent feminist woman offers no personal gain to us. While we are content with our own capabilities and provisions, we have little satisfaction to gain by risking our lives and estates for an ungrateful female companion.

While I applaud social changes that allow women to succeed on their own and be independent, I merely state the possible cause of many modern women’s loneliness and isolation from successful capable husbands.

Summarily, we are mostly unnecessary and unappreciated, hence have little to gain and much to risk. At the end of my third marriage, I look at the incredible cost of giving away the fruits of my many conquests and labours over the years and ask myself if it was worth it? Aside from the knowledge gained and experience, I conclude negatively.