So I’ve been on and off with my girl. For over a year. I been with her the Monday-Saturday morning. Gave her flowers Thursday night she gave me a long hug and said nobody ever did this for her. Then Friday night, she told me she wanted time to herself and that we spend everyday with each other this week. I asked for one more night and she agreed. We had morning sex before I headed to work. Gave her a hug and a kiss then headed out. We message playfully here and there throughout the day. I went out with my brother and she message me to check on me. She said a song called why I love you so much made her think about me. Yesterday, I called got sent straight to voicemail and the message I’ll call you back. Called again, got the same thing. I asked if she was okay. She said yes and she was just working and almost done. So, I let her be. This morning called again, got the same I’ll call you back message.
i don’t know if she set it up that way or she just doesn’t want to talk. Cause I didn’t do anything. Should I give her space?
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Hmm that's a weird situation man. On one hand, it does seem like she really likes you based on what happened earlier in the week. But now suddenly blowing you off and not even talking when you call is odd. My guess is she probably does need some space like she said, even if things were good before. Girls can be moody sometimes ya know? Maybe all the time together this week was a bit much for her even if it was fun. I wouldn't take it personally since you said you didn't do anything wrong. My advice would be to give her the space she asked for, don't keep bugging her to talk. Play it cool for a bit. She might just be overwhelmed and needs a break to sort her head out. In a day or two, send her a casual text like "hope you're feeling better, hit me up if you wanna hang later" and then leave it at that. Let her make the next move. No use stressing when you got no control over the situation. She'll come around once she's recharged her social batteries i bet.
Yes give her some space. Sometimes spending too much time with someone can be too much even if they love and care for you. Sounds like she likes you but she also sounds like she needs some space. It's healthy to do things on your own and plan hangouts with friends. It's okay! Plus she even said that she wants time for herself and there's nothing wrong with that. So let her breathe I'm sure she cares and loves you. Also try to have a conversation about it so both of you can understand each other
Wait for her to get out of work and she’ll probably reach out to you after she’s done with work. But in general, you guys should give a little space to miss each other.