Did I do something wrong?

[Bevelyquen]

Okay so this is a long story, so me and my boyfriend both 15 started dating 2 months ago ( long distance, online ) and it was unexpected cause we were like okay we are done with dating then met each other. So in the beginning of our relationship we both made it clear that we hated receiving and sending nudes. Now fast forwarding to yesterday I was talking to my friend and she said “go suck your bf’s one inch” and I sent that to my boyfriend and asked “do I tell her 😭” and he said “tell her 😭” so I replied to her and said “11” she’s like “what 🤨” I said “11 inches 😭” and she was saying how she doesn’t believe me and stuff and I was also talking to my boyfriend at the same time and he’s telling me to tell her “tell her you’ve seen it on ft” “tell her it’s true” and I was doing all that he said, then I’m like there is no proof she won’t believe it and I’m like ( as a joke ) “send a pic”. And I said “not like that just like through your pants or something” and he’s like “maybe 🤷‍♀️” “maybe on your birthday” “baby you’re gonna see it soon 😭” and I’m like okay good he’s going along with it then I said “nah I’m playing, I don’t actually wanna see it” and I don’t think he saw that message but we went on with the day then like I don't know how much time later he just got dry and I’m like what’s wrong and he said “Don’t talk to me, I’m mad at you” and I’m like “okay why? What did I do?” And he said “I’m just disgusted that you asked to see my dick” and I’m like “oh I’m sorry I said I was joking” and he’s like “oh I that you were serious” and I’m like no no I wasn’t it was a joke and now he can’t forgive me and said he kinda lost feelings for me cause he thought I was different, guys what do I do, I’ve apologized a million times and he keeps saying it’s okay but he can’t forgive me did I really do something that bad? I gave him space, and an option to leave but he doesn’t want it so I don’t know what to do I think our relationship is over now and I’m so confused.

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6 mo

This is not an update but there is more I wanted to say

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6 mo

Don’t mind that second “update” I accidentally clicked it 😭 but I meant to say I don't want us to end over this. So can someone please tell me what I did wrong, or what to do now? Also I've taken full responsibility for it and validated his feelings but deep down I don't think it's that serious, but he also said it's something more but l'm waiting for his response on that now. Advice?

[Wise4myage]

Don't worry about it, your a teenager and relationships at your age never last any way. And please use punctuation.

[Bevelyquen]

I did use punctuation, did I use them wrong? But yeah ig you’re right but okay

[Wise4myage]

Your right, sorry. 🤣

[Wise4myage]

Tell him to get over it already.

[Bevelyquen]

It’s alright, I was just confused 😭

[Bevelyquen]

So I didn’t do anything wrong?

[Wise4myage]

No, I don't think you did. He just overreacted. Be more careful though from now on.

[Bevelyquen]

But he’s still gonna upset about this whole thing and will barely talk to me so I don't know what to do, and wdym be careful?

[Wise4myage]

Be careful about making dick jokes, lol. Give him time to get over it. If he doesn't, then move on.

[Bevelyquen]

Yeah I told him I won’t make anything anymore but he said I can just don’t ask for nudes

[Wise4myage]

But that was already discussed, right?

[Bevelyquen]

Yes it was

[Wise4myage]

Then he's upset for no real reason.

[Bevelyquen]

Yeah I was thinking that too but yk I’m still trying to understand him

[Wise4myage]

Being long distance from each other might be playing a part in this too.

[Bevelyquen]

Yeah ik it’s starting to really get to us

[Wise4myage]

Sorry to hear that, but I understand.

[Bevelyquen]

Do you have any like tips for us cause neither of us wanna break up but it’s getting really hard, we keep arguing and stuff

[Wise4myage]

If your constantly arguing then that’s not good.

[Bevelyquen]

Yeah ik I just honestly don’t know what to do

[Wise4myage]

Maybe you need to think about breaking up?

[Bevelyquen]

Neither of us want to, is there another way to help?

[Wise4myage]

Stick it out for now, but make sure he knows the arguing has to stop.

[Bevelyquen]

Yes I talked to him earlier this morning and he knows and we are both trying

[Bevelyquen]

Thank you so much

[Wise4myage]

Sure, I hope I helped.

[Wise4myage]

Thank you.

[Bevelyquen]

No problemm

[boggboss]

Both are acting immature which to be fair makes sense due yo your ages as for what next I guess that's upto him

[Bevelyquen]

I’m confused on how I’m acting immature

[boggboss]

The conversation u was having with your friends ofc they was gonna ask for proof and that u asked from his perspective could have seemed like u actually trying to get a dick pick to show your friends he was not their or with u so he could easly mistake it for u being serious

[Bevelyquen]

Yes I get that sorry, thank you though you’re totally right. I wasn’t thinking about all that

[Bevelyquen]

Also she didn’t ask for proof but i get what you’re saying

[boggboss]

But thats why I'm saying the whole situation is immature because he went along with it then got upset later being equally as immature

[Bevelyquen]

Yeah I know so do you know what I should do?

[boggboss]

Wait leave it to him their is nothing u can do until u talk about what else is wrong with him

[Bevelyquen]

Yeah okay thank you very much

[dudeinohio]

Never send nudes until both of you are 18. Otherwise. You are guilty of producing and distributing child pornography.

So I'm glad you didn't.

[Anonymous]

You're such a sweetheart.

[Bevelyquen]

Why? 😭

[Bevelyquen]

I mean how