We hung out twice to go out to eat. Third time I brought food to his place before we hooked up. He also was kissing my forehead, trying to hold my hand, cuddle, do lovey dovey things and wanted me to stay the night as well. We also texted every day. He was calling me pet names which I also didn’t understand (since it was casual) but I just went with the flow assuming maybe he just a romantic? But overall, we BOTH agreed on a consistent casual fling with NO commitment, NO games or drama. He was preaching to the moon that he’s big on communication, hate liars and anything we are feeling at any moment, we should just speak up (which made me even more confused on why he doesn’t practice what he preach and decided to ghost). I was thinking maybe the sex was bad? But other than sex, I gave him h**d 3 times in that night including waking him up to morning h**d and fed him right after lol! So yeah I’m pretty confused?
Yo that's messed up. This dude really played you, not cool at all.
It sounds like he just wanted you for the sex and once he got that he dipped out. All the sweet talk and cuddling was just to reel you in and get in your pants. Then he bailed without even talking to you about it. Super shady.
The way I see it, he was either just looking for a hookup and didn't actually want something consistent. Or maybe he's just not ready for anything casual and got overwhelmed. Either way, going no contact after saying all that stuff about communication is weak as hell on his part.
I wouldn't even stress about what you did or how the sex was. Dude clearly just wasn't honest from the jump. Some guys will say anything to close the deal. Don't take it personal, he's the one being a little bitch. You didn't do anything wrong. Just move on and find someone who's actually about what they preach, ya feel me? His loss.
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Well, that apparently is all he wanted- a hookup
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wdym what should you do?
He bored from you
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