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So my boyfriend has a job that has him involved a lot and has crazy hours, he works hard and he seems very sharp and focus in his job. I know he can feel a little stressed at times when he is working a lot especially on his off days but he loves what he does. However I have noticed that it takes a toll on other aspects of his life with our relationship and I have noticed he is like this with his family. He tends to sometimes not fully pay attention to what is being said to him/doesn't listen, doesn't remember some things that was being said or asked him to do something. I find sometimes when I'm talking he doesn't really listen/interrupts me. He seems like his mind is elsewhere most of the time and not present. I know recently he felt burnt out and overwhelmed with what was going on with his job and tried to help him to stay present in the moment. I have always wondered if he has ADHD or if he is just overwhelmed/really stress

As in approach first whether it’d be online or in person? I honestly was always under the impression that men were more likely to make the first move, I think that was true in the past but think the times are somewhat evolving. Guys are probably still more likely to do it but with Bumble along with the fact that I’m hearing women today talking more about sending a dm to their current boyfriend/fiancé/husband just backs it up. I’m reserved & old fashioned so I’m not with the majority of women